Possible or not to have great sex despite being OBESE ?

[melissa_74]

I'm curious to know, Is there a way for an obese couple to have great sex ? As in both parties are about 50-60 lbs overweight.

I know its possible to have sex, but I'm asking is it possible to have GREAT sex, despite the lack of flexibility & stamina from both parties.

 

It would be great to hear from any ladies or men that have a similar situation . Thank you .

[Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll]

hell yeah, just cz you fat dont mean you cant work it..........

 

shame on you if you think just beacuse you dont have flexibility and stamina you cant have great sex.........

[Clementine orange]

Not sure what constitutes great sex as opposed to "just" good sex. I don't think that weight really is an issue if two people are totally into each other. You dont have to be doing some weird yoga position or hanging off the chandelier in order to have good/great sex.

 

I'm "regular" weight and I've had everything from extremely bad sex right up to superfantastic-aglorious sex so....

[jul-els]

It depends on what you're definition of great sex is.

 

If you equate that with flexiblity and stamina and feel that you don't have enough, there are things you can do to improve it.

 

A healthy diet and daily exercise applied with discipline and dedication will enable you to achieve the results you desire.

[melissa_74]

I know its possible to have good sex despite being obese . I've tried doggy & it becomes a tad complicated given that his member is a little small .

I don't want the sex with my man to only be o.k. , I want it to be fantastic, I want it to be memorable, but so far nothing good , only akwardness came from it .

[Clementine orange]

I know its possible to have good sex despite being obese . I've tried doggy & it becomes a tad complicated given that his member is a little small .

I don't want the sex with my man to only be o.k. , I want it to be fantastic, I want it to be memorable, but so far nothing good , only akwardness came from it .

 

The best sexual "weapon" in your "army" is between your ears and his! Sexy emails or phone calls etc as a build up several hours before will have your guy drooling by the time he gets it. Plus there are other ways to have sex besides actual intercourse.

[russ978]

I believe that it is possible for anyone of any size to have mind blowing sex.

 

It just takes a little imagination, the right mindset, and a willingness to experiment.

 

I can maybe see your point about a lack of flexibility but there are many thin people who aren't greatly flexible so I can presume it works both ways, if they stretch, large people can be flexible.

 

As far as the stamina issue, that is a bunch of BS. Larger people may have to exert more energy to move themselves but a stereotype of a lack of stamina for overweight people is horse excrement. Stamina is based more on frequency of exercise than it is on weight so saying that 'an overweight person has no stamina' is a flawed argument.

[darkpumpkin]

You can have great sex no matter what size you are. I have been obese and had amazing mind blowing sex and been normal weight and have enjoyed it just as much. The only thing that would stop you from having great sex is yourself and how much your willing to work at it to find what really knocks both your socks off.

 

 

Lol basically what russ978 said

[melissa_74]

About the whole being on top thing, I've tried, I just can't move fast enough for it to actually be pleasurable .

Just one question out of the blue: When its said to move our hips "side-to-side" or to do circular montions while being on top, is it literal ?

[russ978]

Just one question out of the blue: When its said to move our hips "side-to-side" or to do circular montions while being on top, is it literal ?

 

Up and down, grind in a back and forth/circular motion to get clitoral stimulation via the friction caused by the friction between your pelvic areas.

 

Sorry to whatever moderator if I wasn't allowed to use the C word.

[RayKay]

Up and down, grind in a back and forth/circular motion to get clitoral stimulation via the friction caused by the friction between your pelvic areas.

 

Sorry to whatever moderator if I wasn't allowed to use the C word.

 

Last time I checked clitoral is not a swear word!

 

The language policy bans slang, not medical/"actual" terminology.

[chai714]

Clementine was right on when HE said the brain is your main sexual organ. Your brain controls everything including erections, orgasms, and everything related to sex. Physiologically, some women can have g-spot orgasms but most can not (my opinion). Sexual fulfillment however is a state of mind and a very subjective topic. It is my opinion that everyone can have equally fulfilling sex, since your mind is the main ingredient.

[Clementine orange]

Clementine was right on when she said the brain is your main sexual organ. .

 

Argh, I'm a man - why does this keep happening? I just checked to make certain and yes I have all the parts

Do I right really girly or something.

 

Regardless, I concure with chai - the brain is the biggest sex organ.

[jul-els]

Argh, I'm a man - why does this keep happening? I just checked to make certain and yes I have all the parts

Do I right really girly or something.

 

Regardless, I concure with chai - the brain is the biggest sex organ.

 

No, it's your screename; Clementine tends to bring a feminine connontation.

 

I'm a guy and I've experienced the same thing with my screen name which has sometimes been quite funny.

[tiredofvampires]

I guess no one knows American Standards anymore, lol.

 

One of my favorite pieces I played on the piano and sang to when I was young, and a very famous one at that:

 

In a cavern, in a canyon, excavating for a mine,

Lived a miner, forty-niner, and his daughter Clementine.

 

Chorus:

Oh my darling, Oh my darling, Oh my darling Clementine,

You are lost and gone forever, dreadful sorry, Clementine.

 

Now does that ring a bell?

 

But getting back to the thread: I think your advice is SPOT on, I agree 100%.

 

Women who have more body fat are actually generally MORE flexible than other women, because the estrogen that's stored in fat makes connective tissue more "stretchy". I am not overweight myself, but I do know of large ladies who have talked about the amazing sex they have, and I actually envy them, since I am not sure myself what "mindblowing sex" consists of, except exceptional rapport and fun with my partner.