Help Please

[HiImDalton]

Well, I guess this would be the place for my problem, if not...sorry.

 

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Anyways, I have been talking to this girl that lives in Texas (I'm in Illinois). We have been talking for a year now (online, phone, etc.). And she says she likes me and etc. She is a beautiful girl and all. But me, I'm well, a chubby guy. She says she loves me and all, but I just can't get the idea that someone like her would like someone like me...She wants to come all the way up here to see me and stuff, but I'm to scared and think she won't like me. (She has seen pics of me and such.) I like her a lot and all, but just don't think she will like me and I don't know what to do...

 

If you understand what I'm trying to say, any help would be appreciated.

 

-Dalton

 

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EDIT: I see I actually did put it in the wrong place. I guess it would go more under cyber relationships...Sry.

[Scotcha]

Were the pictures you showed an accurate representation of yourself? If so I don't think you have much to worry about at all as she is obviously attracted to you.

 

I'm going to throw this out as a word of caution though. Just be sure that she really is who she says she is. (pictures aren't proof) And make sure that if you do meet it is done with absolute safety in mind.

[HiImDalton]

Were the pictures you showed an accurate representation of yourself? If so I don't think you have much to worry about at all as she is obviously attracted to you.

 

I'm going to throw this out as a word of caution though. Just be sure that she really is who she says she is. (pictures aren't proof) And make sure that if you do meet it is done with absolute safety in mind.

 

Yeah, I suppose the pictures were, but I still have a lot of doubt. I don't have the best self-esteem.

 

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Yeah, she is who she says. Seen her on web cam, talked to her sister and her mom even once. Thanks for the advice though.

[Lana0120]

If she's seen what you look like, she obviously knows you're overweight and it doesn't matter to her. Besides, you're probably not as bad as you think! Confront the demons and meet her, because I am sure you will be pleasantly surprised.

[HiImDalton]

If she's seen what you look like, she obviously knows you're overweight and it doesn't matter to her. Besides, you're probably not as bad as you think! Confront the demons and meet her, because I am sure you will be pleasantly surprised.

 

Thanks for the advice.

[alphaliterati]

Hi Dalton......I wouldn't worry a tad bit if I were you. She has heard you, seen you, introduced you to her family, your fate is sealed. She likes you. I wouldn't be surprised if she finds your shy and unsure quality very attractive. One thing I can tell you about looks is that to some people, more so female, it plays a minimal role in the attraction game. If you play your personality from a place of security, integrity, confidence, respect and honesty e.t.c .........your looks will count for nothing. In fact, not being too pretty as a guy can be very masculine and I suspect this could be one of your strongholds. Be your own bed-rock and she will come to you for support. Good luck, ta.

[HiImDalton]

Hi Dalton......I wouldn't worry a tad bit if I were you. She has heard you, seen you, introduced you to her family, your fate is sealed. She likes you. I wouldn't be surprised if she finds your shy and unsure quality very attractive. One thing I can tell you about looks is that to some people, more so female, it plays a minimal role in the attraction game. If you play your personality from a place of security, integrity, confidence, respect and honesty e.t.c .........your looks will count for nothing. In fact, not being too pretty as a guy can be very masculine and I suspect this could be one of your strongholds. Be your own bed-rock and she will come to you for support. Good luck, ta.

 

Thanks for the input!