questions for guys

[xocatsmeowxo]

Hey I had a question for guys:

 

1) have you ever lied about having sex with someone?

2) If a guy tells people that he doesn’t want a long term thing(only to get laid) should I just walk away, or is there a chance that he might change

3) have u ever been like that? Where u thought only about sex but then all of a sudden u met someone who changed your opinion and u wanted to be in a long term thing

4) Did u lie the first time you said u had sex?

 

p.s. the guy im talking about is 17….

[Papillion]

when you say lie, do you mean had sex but said i didnt? or didnt have sex but said i had?

 

i've denied a few shags in my time, but i've never claimed to have shagged someone that i hadnt.

 

and to answer question 3, yes thats happened to me a few times. but then i do tend to fall quite easily. and if i like someone enough to sleep with them then i usually like them enough to want to be in a relationship with them.

[Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll]

no i havent lied about having sex, im a virgin and i'll tell you if you ask cz im not ashamed of it.

 

for number 2, go ahead and try you'll be posting in the infedlity sub forum calling all men pigs

 

no i havent

 

no i didnt lie about sex, ive never had it and im not ashamed

 

im 20 btw

 

if you date him and hes like this your in for a world of trouble. but go ahead and try if you want.

[Konarmi]

1) have you ever lied about having sex with someone?

No. I'm honest when asked. You have to ask first.

2) If a guy tells people that he doesn’t want a long term thing(only to get laid) should I just walk away, or is there a chance that he might change

he'll never change. If you give in to him right away he'll only pump ya and dump ya.

3) have u ever been like that? Where u thought only about sex but then all of a sudden u met someone who changed your opinion and u wanted to be in a long term thing

Ask the person you're dating what they're after. I personally was never into sex that much until I met my current girlfriend.. now it's 2-3 times a day if I can get it.

4) Did u lie the first time you said u had sex?

no. why? cowards lie!

or people ashamed of their past.

Sins cast long shadows. Minimize your sins, minimize your shadow.

[andy5128]

Hey I had a question for guys:

 

1) have you ever lied about having sex with someone?

2) If a guy tells people that he doesn’t want a long term thing(only to get laid) should I just walk away, or is there a chance that he might change

3) have u ever been like that? Where u thought only about sex but then all of a sudden u met someone who changed your opinion and u wanted to be in a long term thing

4) Did u lie the first time you said u had sex?

 

p.s. the guy im talking about is 17….

 

Being honest here but I am 34 so maybe not quite the same..

 

1. If ever then yeah many years back

2. Guys in general dont talk relationship stuff at 17 well not from memory.. so for him to say this I would say he is being straight with you and when I was 17 I dont think I was after anything long term either too be honest.

3. Yeah of course

4. No

 

 

 

Hope this helps... Andy

[ghost69]

1. no

2. not sure if you can change the guy. women should not think that way. but women get so emotional after sex. i think if you discuss a long term before having sex with the guy, he more than likely will stop contacting you altogether anyways

3. happens all the time

4. yes. i told the girl i lost my virginity to that i had sex 2 months prior. lol. she asked cause she said she could tell i had experience. she is 6 years older than me.

[BManMcFly]

Hey I had a question for guys:

 

1) have you ever lied about having sex with someone?

2) If a guy tells people that he doesn’t want a long term thing(only to get laid) should I just walk away, or is there a chance that he might change

3) have u ever been like that? Where u thought only about sex but then all of a sudden u met someone who changed your opinion and u wanted to be in a long term thing

4) Did u lie the first time you said u had sex?

 

p.s. the guy im talking about is 17….

 

1 - Yes... I've both denied having sex with someone that I didn't, and lied about sleeping with a girl when all that happened was sleep (when it wasn't going to get back to her)

2 - There is a CHANCE. That is all, do you want to take that chance? I can't answer that.

3 - Yes, when the woman offered great sex on a repeated basis, it's turned into a relationship... but all in all it almost falls in the exception category.

4 - No... but she lied and said she was a virgin.

[Xonfused]

#1) Yes I have lied to my buddies "o yea i totally did her" we were all talking about people weve had sex with and i lied

 

#2) If he tells you he doesnt want long term commitment than its obvious he is only interested in physical pleasure. Whats the point of being his girlfriend if hes only going to use you for sex? Just stay friends with benfits or ditch him, but i wouldnt become emotionally attached

 

#3) Yes this one time i only saw this girl as attractive but we spent more time together and i became more emotional towards her and asked her to be my gf.

 

#4) Yes i lied to my gf when i lost my virginity because i didnt want her to think i was inexperienced, later i told her the truth though