I've gone for no contact

[antto]

i've tried to go for a no contact or as near as possible. she still wants to be friends. i know i have to see her as she does drop off my daughter. i've found it incressingly difficult as the months have gone on. at weekends it's worse. i hope now i can find some peace of mind. and concentrate on my daughter who loves me to bits.

[Entropy Smith]

I'd stay NC, except for being civil when she drops off your daughter...when she starts banging her new BF with your daughter in the house thats when you need to be able to manage your emotions...

[1guygirl]

yeah low contact/no contact as in only talk about arrangements about your daughter and dont get caught up in anything else

 

you could ask that if she has/finds a new bf to respect your wishes and not bring him with her to drop your daughter off. if she cant respect that then ask her to possibly drop her off at say your moms house or likewise...why have ya face rubbed in it ey!

[nightw0lf]

i've tried to go for a no contact or as near as possible. she still wants to be friends. i know i have to see her as she does drop off my daughter. i've found it incressingly difficult as the months have gone on. at weekends it's worse. i hope now i can find some peace of mind. and concentrate on my daughter who loves me to bits.

 

Antto, i know your situation and i told you NC is the best advice any of us i think can give. Speng time with your daughters and focus on yourself, its about you.

[antto]

well i've told her to drop her off at my dad's i don't want to see her again. i also said i need some time for myself. i can't always babysit for her...... unless my daughter wants to come it has to be her choice. single life for me. i'd rather be on my own then get hurt like i did this time.

[Dominic_M]

I am going to pick up my daughter tomorrow to have my weekend with her. I am scared/nervious to do this as I know I will see her when i pick my baby up.

 

I really wish I had someone who can pick her up for me, but I dont and will do what it takes to see my baby girl again this weekend.

 

Still doesnt make it easier at all, she looks great these days too

[bluebiker12]

Still doesnt make it easier at all, she looks great these days too

 

Then you should do your best to look great too, never let them see you down.

[antto]

do you know whats makes you worse when you contact your ex. is the wait. take away the want for them to contact you then you will feel better

[antto]

it was very hard last night seeing her at work. but all it did was bring home the pain of wanting to keep in contact with her.