how likely is this?

[shep88ner]

say someone is sitting really close to you, and they go in for a kiss. if you pull away (because you have a gf/bf), how likely would it be for your tongue's to actually touch? because when i think of someone pulling away, unless the person forcefuly pulled your head in, i don't see how it could happen unless you somewhat kissed back...what do you say?

[barbielovesmac]

ok no. i don't think so.

you would actually have to stick your tongue in their mouth.

and if you are pulling away .........

it just makes no sense.

why do you ask???

[shep88ner]

ok no. i don't think so.

you would actually have to stick your tongue in their mouth.

and if you are pulling away .........

it just makes no sense.

why do you ask???

 

my gf had this happen to her the day i left for college last year (sept. 2006). she was helping her neighbor with some homework when it happened. she told me about it 2 weeks ago and claims that he tried to kiss her and she pulled off. when i asked if their tongues touched (half kidding) and said "i dont know...yea, maybe...i dont remember" kind of in a laughing embarrassed voice.

 

i just thought that maybe she felt bad about it and to her, telling me about it, was kind of like confessing, without me knowing 100% (because she told me out of nowhere one day)

[barbielovesmac]

my gf had this happen to her the day i left for college last year (sept. 2006). she was helping her neighbor with some homework when it happened. she told me about it 2 weeks ago and claims that he tried to kiss her and she pulled off. when i asked if their tongues touched (half kidding) and said "i dont know...yea, maybe...i dont remember"

 

Okay first off, tongues DO NOT 'just touch' especially when one is pulling away. Sure it's possible that his tongue may have hit her mouth but actually getting inside her mouth to touch her tongue, sorry but I HIGHLY doubt that.

 

SECOND what's with "i dont know...yea, maybe...i dont remember" like is she kidding?!

That's CRAP! Sounds pretty stupid if you ask me.

[jengh]

Okay first off, tongues DO NOT 'just touch' especially when one is pulling away. Sure it's possible that his tongue may have hit her mouth but actually getting inside her mouth to touch her tongue, sorry but I HIGHLY doubt that.

 

SECOND what's with "i dont know...yea, maybe...i dont remember"

That's CRAP! Sounds pretty stupid if you ask me.

 

i second this!!! tongues don't just randomly touch...

[shep88ner]

Okay first off, tongues DO NOT 'just touch' especially when one is pulling away. Sure it's possible that his tongue may have hit her mouth but actually getting inside her mouth to touch her tongue, sorry but I HIGHLY doubt that.

 

SECOND what's with "i dont know...yea, maybe...i dont remember"

That's CRAP! Sounds pretty stupid if you ask me.

 

yea...i text this guy about it today, and he hasn't responded as of now. i just really want to know what all happened because if i find out she kissed him, she's going to be awful lonely

[barbielovesmac]

yea...i text this guy about it today, and he hasn't responded as of now. i just really want to know what all happened because if i find out she kissed him, she's going to be awful lonely

 

she should be awful lonely now for coming up with something so stupid like

 

"i dont know...yea, maybe...i dont remember"

 

for her to even say that thier tongues touched but she didn't kiss him is bogus. sorry dude.

 

if my boyfriend came at me with a story like this i'd laugh in his face and say you're kidding right?!

 

and lets just say he'd be awfuly lonely.

[shep88ner]

she should be awful lonely now for coming up with something so stupid like

 

"i dont know...yea, maybe...i dont remember"

 

for her to even say that thier tongues touched but she didn't kiss him is bogus. sorry dude.

 

if my boyfriend came at me with a story like this i'd laugh in his face and say you're kidding right?!

 

and lets just say he'd be awfuly lonely.

 

ya, i guess a part of me doesn't accept the fact that it doesn't add up. and i keep ignoring the fact that she's had 2 other stories that didn't add up and i caught her in lies. but if there's even the slimmest chance she didn't, i don't want to make a mistake and end it yet. i'll only do it if i have 100% proof it happened...but i'll probably never have that kind of evidence

[barbielovesmac]

how old is she?

[shep88ner]

she's 17 right now...she'll be 18 in december. meaning she was 16 when this happened

[barbielovesmac]

then there ya go.

 

you guys are young.

 

don't hold onto something so ............... well get your proof. but honestly she's young. your young. she's clearly lying.

 

i think you know what you should do.

[barbielovesmac]

here's how i see it...if he cheated on you, then he doesn't love you. and if he cheated on you then he doesn't deserve a second chance, he doesn't even deserve a conversation about it. and a alot of people are going to disagree with me but i see it as "once a cheater, always a cheater". if you let him back in, he's probably going to do it again, only this time since he's learned from his mistakes, he'll just be better at hiding it from you.

 

^^^ you just posted this on another thread. im not saying that she cheated but these are your words. live by them. good luck!

[kaoticbaby]

why did she tell you this out of nowhere after a year? sounds like she's trying to make you jealous. but yeah, i got this same story from my boyfriend last year, but in his version no tongues were involved. either way, i don't believe it. how close was she to him while he was "helping him with his homework?" becuase i have never gotten close enough to a guy for him to even kiss me WITHOUT tongue. arms length, people.

[barbielovesmac]

immature is an understatement.

[shep88ner]

thanks to you all so far...but i have another question about this...

 

is it ok to lie to her to get her to confess?

 

here's why i ask...i told her today that i texted this guy and that he texted me back saying she kissed him back (he never did text me back). she believed me that he responded to me and still denied it all. i got a few slip ups that i asked her about from it, but i'm just wondering if it's alright to do that in order to find out the real truth about something.

[JadedStar]

thanks to you all so far...but i have another question about this...

 

is it ok to lie to her to get her to confess?

 

here's why i ask...i told her today that i texted this guy and that he texted me back saying she kissed him back (he never did text me back). she believed me that he responded to me and still denied it all. i got a few slip ups that i asked her about from it, but i'm just wondering if it's alright to do that in order to find out the real truth about something.

 

No, it's not alright to do something underhanded like this. I think it will backfire on you. Do you really want to resort to something underhanded to combat underhandedness? ?

 

It is the honest person who tries these types of tactics that always gets burned. I jsut have this feeling tihs will backfire on you. Somehow she'll use this against you and get out of this scotfree to boot.

[shep88ner]

No, it's not alright to do something underhanded like this. I think it will backfire on you. Do you really want to resort to something underhanded to combat underhandedness? ?

 

It is the honest person who tries these types of tactics that always gets burned. I jsut have this feeling tihs will backfire on you. Somehow she'll use this against you and get out of this scotfree to boot.

 

yea...i guess you're right, but i just want the truth and i want to know whether or not i'm wrong or right. because i cannot completely hold her accountable unless i have 100% proof she did it. the way i see it, its kind of like court...unless there is undisputable evidence that she did it, there will always be doubt and thus i cannot be sure. i know it's kind of rotten but i guess i argue like a lawyer, and i'll do anything for a confession

[Bunney]

Seriously, move on. She's not being honest with you. How do you not remember if your tongues touched? She already said it; "yeah, maybe". There you go. She cheated. (By the way, as others already stated, tongues cant ACCIDENTLY touch.)

 

You also said that you caught her in two other lies - Why wouldn't she mess around THIS time? These are all red flags, please go find someone mature.