I'm sad :(

[couldbehappy]

I'm in a rut. Missing someone I don't need to be missing. I'm up wide awake typing here so I can go towards NC.

 

I wish I wasn't 34 single and alone. I love someone who I can't have (married)....he has led me on, made me feel so sad. I've cut it off but *I still feel lonely and sad and like I've lost the person I was meant for.

 

He hurt me once before he was married and now married has done the same thing. It's like I've been 'trapped' emotionally and want to move on but I think he's my 'person'

 

I just want to vent so I don't email him (I've been crying all nitd

[bubblyblonde11]

Hey I'm 34 and recently single again and before Xmas I was single for 4yrs. Being single doesn't mean being alone and can be good fun.

 

Your worth far more than someone who cannot commit to you. When the time is right find yourself someone who is not already in a relationship to start dating.

[russ978]

I'm in a rut.

 

 

So you want to get out of a rut. One of my lady friends said that nothing makes her feel better than getting showered and shaved, putting on her hottest sundress, taking a few bucks out of the ATM, and heading to the mall to walk around, do a little shopping, and eat a little lunch.

 

The looks you are sure to get will be a major self esteem booster and I bet you won't be able to stop smiling!

 

What are some things that other women out there do to get a self esteem boost/get knocked out of that rut?

 

You'll get there couldbehappy!

[nightw0lf]

I'm in a rut. Missing someone I don't need to be missing. I'm up wide awake typing here so I can go towards NC.

 

I wish I wasn't 34 single and alone. I love someone who I can't have (married)....he has led me on, made me feel so sad. I've cut it off but *I still feel lonely and sad and like I've lost the person I was meant for.

 

He hurt me once before he was married and now married has done the same thing. It's like I've been 'trapped' emotionally and want to move on but I think he's my 'person'

 

I just want to vent so I don't email him (I've been crying all nitd

 

 

I dont know the full story but if he's married the best thing for you now is NC..you will be ok.

[couldbehappy]

He emailed today. I didn't submit to NC. I replied but left out anything that talked about us. Left it light, work, etc.

 

Did tell him I thought of him often....that was all he got.

 

He's wanting to divorce....he says....not because of me but because he's living like he's separated all ready ...he says.

 

Shes in another state with her own house. He has his house. They get together for their child and take turns. It's weird. Been this way for 2 years. We were together before he married her. She was his ex-fiance when we met. I was a rebound...but not....we were interrupted when she came back and he needed to see if they could make it work.

 

3 years later they are in the same situation.....and now a childs involved. The kid is possibly autistic and I don't know if she is all that good of a mom.

 

I love all kids....and I'm an educator. Just kind of in a weird triangle I don't want to be involved in. I won't see him at this point (finally) as he's married now and I can see the future 'train wreck' that will occur if we kept going like we were. If he gets divorced I told him I'd look at it then.

 

Right now I've been focusing on me. I've shopped....but I need to quit retail therapy only goes so far. Now I need a financial consultant...lol

[desert_rose26]

So you want to get out of a rut. One of my lady friends said that nothing makes her feel better than getting showered and shaved, putting on her hottest sundress, taking a few bucks out of the ATM, and heading to the mall to walk around, do a little shopping, and eat a little lunch.

 

Wow, that does sound good.