want to date my friend

[Guest]

heres da whole story in short.its quite a lengthy one.soz.

 

ummm...i had a LDR which was my first ever relationship with a girl and we broke up cos of someone she found closer to her.tht was bou a wk or so ago and i had lots of help from my friends.the one i turned to most was a girl who is a gd friend of mine and has been for quite a while.step aside from al da help and stuff,she is quite simply beautiful and has a personality i really like.i never realised it bt now i really like her.

 

i told her everything bou my troubles and she also found out tht i liked someone from my best m8.she questioned me on da phone who this person was and wouldnt stop so i gave in and told her tht she was da one i like.she was rather taken back.

 

talkin 2 her l8r,she told me tht she likes me 2 bt wants to take things slowly for my sake.however,i feel fine bou my last relationship and definitely wana move on.bt im nt sure if ive moved 2 fast into this.

 

we had a drink in a cafe and then jus hung out in town da other day.it was kinda awkward as we were friends b4 and now things are a bit different.however,i really wana go out with her proper and im nt sure should i wait for a while or jus go 4 it now?should i go out wit her a few more times jus 2 ensure i want it?

[Cid]

Ask her out. that is about all I can say. Unless you think this will kill your friendship with her then I ask you, Is it worth the chance of lossing her to try to get her? That is the real question.

[uongy]

umm...wel soz 2 have missed tht out bt i have asked her already bou tht and she said tht friendship wouldnt nt be at stake.we wil again b friends.

is there anything 2 stop me now?

[P-Frenchie]

I am in almost the exact situation as you (except the roles are reversed)... Go for it and try to forget about any awkwardness (as this can extinguish the spark). Try and act naturally around her with a few extra benefits .

[Cid]

No it looks like you can go forward with asking her out. So go for her.