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  1. My dad left me a tiny bit of life insurance money. There were 4 beneficiaries of the policy one being my dad’s youngest sister. One of the questions to claim the policy is they asked if the policyholder had at one time smoked. Now of course my aunt put yes , but that my dad quit in the 1980’s which he did. So now of course we all have to put that . My dad did not die of lung related illness but from kidney failure. Would that disqualify his policy?
  2. I messed up. I have with the only person ever in my life to care about me for me, for the past 2 years. We have had a rocky relationship however, there were plent of good moments together. We also adotped a dog togehter about a year in (he is like both our child). She moved in with me almost instantly and we rent a house, along with my father. I have issues with drinking and smoking weed. I have not been there for her sexually like i should have been for a good while of the relationship, and admidlty could have been more affectionate. We had a 4 day seperation about 4 months ago bec
  3. Ive been talking to this girl for about 2 months now and are both into eachother. But the last few days she has been not herself and seams really blunt with me. I think its from me smoking more reguarly. I met her two days ago; everything was fine and today it has all crashed down. I asked her whats wrong and she just explained she was going through some stuff w her step dad, and that 'i dont think im what you need rn' implying something, but cant get my head around what. I dont know where her head thruthly is atm but I want things to go back to usual. All im asking is for somebody else's opin
  4. Hi everyone, I’ll try and keep this quick. I’m hoping if you can tell me if my boyfriend is being unfair to this situation. My boyfriend and I have technically been together 8 months. However, after these 8 months we broke up due to trust issues, and got back together after one and a half months apart. These issues have now been resolved and things are going great. However we’ve only been back together two weeks, so I don’t want to start a serious talk or bad argument about this. I’m just looking for some advice. This morning, my boyfriend was over at my house before he went to work. My mu
  5. So basicly she broke off with me two months ago because of indifference. We both shared different values, we could not connect great and we did not match. Those were her words tho. I declined that POV but it did not matter so it was over. Point is as follow. I felt like sh*t for a long time and still can't seem to behave normal. I feel this energy flowing constantly. I somehow still can't believe it's over and we never spoke since our last break-up talk. To be honest, i was madly in love with that girl and we had so many good times together. We had so many laughs, so many trips, we went
  6. Hi guys, I am a 31 M that is recently broken up with a 27 F after a 2 year relationship. It started off amazingly as all things do and we did so much together. We were different in our interests but similar in our desires to settle down and build a life for each other after a few months. We saved money to build our future and constantly talk about kids etc After a year and a bit things took a dip. We argued a bit. Her saying I was controlling and her showing an aggressive streak. Two trips away were almost ruined and I could not recognise the person before me. 6 months ago she was diagno
  7. So back in the middle of October I took a trip with my Boyfriend. I ended up wetting the bed, I was also bloated, stomach cramping and gaining weight fast. I saw the Urologist when I got back who blew me off. So I got a second opinion. The second urologist did imaging and saw I had a large mass in my bladder. She just went off the Ct Scan, she didn’t order any further imaging. I had a Cystoscope in November and she saw my bladder looks really good and healthy took a sample to biopsy. The only odd thing was she told me I had a large protrusion inside the bladder. But she said to fol
  8. Hi. I was in a relationship with my ex for 9 years. I ended up breaking up with her about a year ago after having long standing feelings that I could not fully commit to her. There was no cheating, no abuse, no major arguments or anything like that. It was just a gut feeling based on some concerns that I had that I could not shake. I brought my feelings up with her half way through our relationship and we eventually separated after 9 years It's been about a year since the breakup and I have since moved to another country. Now that I am single again I miss the times we had together, her
  9. Boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years, he was a smoker when we met (cigarettes and otherwise) but before we got together he had expressed the desire to quit. I have always encouraged this, but thus far it hasn't happened. He has cut down, but at this point I'm not exactly jumping for joy over this little win. Last weekend, when discussing budgeting, I told him his smoking was a problem, that I didn't like it, and that I didn't want to fund it/go to the shop for him anymore. I asked him to set aside his own smoking budget, and be in complete control of the habit, as I didn't like i
  10. Ugh I don’t really know where to start with this. I’ve been dating my girlfriend for almost a year now. I’m 18 and she’s 17 and we met through work last year. I never imagined things would work out between us but we started hanging out and we ended up dating. Early on, I had some issues because she liked to vape/smoke/ drink all of which I’m not really into and she kinda shamed me for it. Eventually she quite vaping but still talks about wanting to smoke and drink which I hate because she knows I hate it. She has become extremely attached and talks about our future together all the time, but
  11. hello, i'm [21] and she's [23] We've been dating for 3 years, we've always loved each other and been happy together. My gf however has depression and struggles with insecurity, low self-esteem. I try to be as positive as I can when I'm around her. ​ Recently she got a fulltime job and is training away for 2 months. The first 3 weeks she kept telling me she's lonely and isn't making any friends and during that time I tried my best to talk to her constantly through text, calls, etc... ​ On the 4th week suddenly she made new friends and started texting me significantly less (We tex
  12. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 years now, on and off. A little bit of background on us: He was diagnosed with bipolar type II about a year ago, though he doesn't seek regular help for it. He takes the medication he's given but doesn't seek therapy which has always concerned me. He's tried a few therapists in the past and none really clicked with him so he's given up on the notion entirely. He's in a very unique position job wise, he's a freelancer, and when he is working, it's usually away from home. He makes a substantial amount of money for the few months of work, then spends t
  13. Hi, my boyfriend (27 y/o) and I (19 y/o) have been dating for the past few months. Normally I do not get involved with guys who smoke cigarettes or weed as I find the smell distasteful, however, my current boyfriend used both. I brought it up that I did not like the smell and asked if he would be willing to quit. He has been very considerate and has made an effort to quit smoking and reduce the amount of weed he smokes, however, I can tell that he seems unwilling to quit smoking weed. It's only been about 3 months since we got together so I'm not sure if it's too much for me to ask for him to
  14. So where to even start, I am a 25 year old female and my boyfriend is 26. We live together and have been together for over a year. I do admit we rushed the relationship but we lived in different cities so him moving to where I am was kind of exhilarating for him I guess you could say. Our relationship was pretty great in the beginning, but what relationships aren't. First things first, I knew before we lived together that he drank/smoked, etc. All his friends do the same thing. I didn't seem to really care because we didn't live together and he wasn't doing those things around me. Fast for
  15. I posted not too long ago about my husband's central core disease and the difficulty we were having within our marriage regarding his treatment and medication. Everything has gotten a bit better during the last few weeks, in part because I've been able to get our attention better focused on our 6 month old daughter who likely has CCD as well. My husband had a doctor's appointment last week and his doctor increased his Tramadol (Ultram) and Vicodin. He is now taking 6 Tramadol (50mg) per day and 3 Vicodin (10mg). She wasn't comfortable raising the Vicodin anymore at this time. She had do
  16. Hi, I'm a newbie here. I fell in love with this girl 8 months ago. I am a musician and I like to smoke pot once in a while. I smoke about 1 gram a week. I have a good job, own my house, pay my bills, never do anything stupid whn I smoke. I told her all of this from the beginning. Now she told me that she thought she was falling in love even more with me, but that she could not see herself with a man that smokes pot. I told her that I was willing to try and quit but that I could not make promises and that I did not think it was a big deal. She would not budge, at all. She told me to leave and o
  17. I left my boyfriend last night and told him I needed space and wanted to stay at my mom's. I woke up at 5 AM worried about the future. I am supposed to go home for lunch and I was going to have a talk with him about his addiction. He smokes pot everyday and I found a straw with white powdery substance in the dining room on the floor so I think he is using other drugs too. I really want out.
  18. Me and my girlfriend has been dating for 4 years , I've done a lot for her but we were on and off when I met her she never smoked until now . I've asked her to stop smoking and she refuses to , I asked her to choose one me or weed she says weed so we break up then after a week or two I missed her so I texted her telling her that I will allow her smoking just to see if I can atleast try and see if I could handle it but I can't . She isn't trying to stop smoking and she's not even trying to stop so what should I do ?
  19. I recently caught my girlfriend in a pair of lies. They were lies over relatively little things (one was about smoking, the other about the amount of money she's been putting into an online game that we play), but they were still lies. I don't have a problem with her smoking, even if it's behind my back, nor do I have a problem with her regularly dropping money into a "free to play" game just to get ahead. That's her prerogative. However, I do have a problem with the fact that she lied to me about these things - and not just once, but many times. I tried to let them go, but I was pretty uncomf
  20. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. I found out a couple days ago that he has been lying to me about smoking for the entirety of our relationship. At first I was absolutely furious. I felt disrespected and humiliated. After thinking about it, I realized that he did not do this to spite me, but it's just an addiction. He told me he hid it from be because he didn't want to disappoint me, and honestly I get it. I love him with all my heart and I know he is the person I am supposed to be with. I don't want to throw away our relationship because of this, however I told him very clear
  21. Hi everyone! We are a group of 5 five friends and one of my friends says that she's broke all the time. It have reached a point that it is really annoying because whenever we are going to do something she says that she is broke and she has to check if she has the money to join, but she doesn't have any problems going out partying with her mom, paying for a gym membership that is expensive and traveling abroad. I've told her that she should get a job but she always keeps making up dumb reasons why not to work.. One time I almost blurted out that she doesn't have to join everything if she do
  22. Hi, so I've posted many forums and I'm currently in my 33rd day of NC. Today, I worked a 7-3pm shift at work. Keep in mind that I work in a establishment where there is 2 locations but same establishment. I work at let's call it DG2 and my ex works at DG1. So, today I was working and I was sent to DG1 to pick up some supplies that we ran out of at DG2 and when I got into the car on my way down there I wasn't thinking anything negative like "oh I hope I don't see her" because I want to mature and I didn't mind seeing her what I did mind if a conversation occurred because that. Anyways, as I wa
  23. I am new here and have a problem with believing my fiance. We have been together for 5 years now and we never fight. He is actually very good to me. He told me last week that he met an older man (a customer...my fiance is a store manager) whom he really liked and that the man had some possible "side work" for him fixing up a place on his property. I asked my fiance what the man's name was and my fiance said that he did not know. (Strange) All that my fiance had was an address (which I copied). I asked if he had exchanged phone numbers, and my fiance said no. I thought this to be very peculiar,
  24. I already know this will be a crazy long post, but i want to include everything I can about this situation. Thanks for reading if you do, i know it's alot. So i met this girl almost 3 years ago (we were both in 9th grade, we're both 16 now). We were'nt really friends, just acquaintances who sat next to each other in a class, so we talked ocasionally. That was it for 9th. Over the summer at some point, we started talking online. It was just out of boredom, but we then talked more and more, and the talking eventually became pretty regular. As school started in 10th, we were real friends
  25. Well, I'm feeling depressed. And this is also day one of trying to quit smoking. What a day to do it. The reason I picked today is because tomorrow I'm going out to a camp with the kids i teach, so i won't be able to smoke for 2 days anyways. I just figured, well why not quit altogether. I don't understand a lot of things right now. My bf lives 2 hours away. We've only seen each other twice since we decided to start dating 2 months ago. THe last time I saw him was before Christmas. You would think, with a distance of only 2 hours, that we could visit more often. But it just hasn't happened
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