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About that college girl I got the number of yesterday... Everything seemed to be going great... She seemed very invested in me yesterday, interested in getting to know me and all... She asked my classmate for me, and gave him her number so he could give it to me, we texted for almost 3 hours straight. We set up a date for this Monday... I tried being a little flirty, but not that much... because I noticed she didn't respond too much to it (she just disregards what I said, leaves me on read or takes several minutes or hours to reply usually with one-liners)... -- then I just stopped flirting altogether. Well, it's the day after that first wave of texting... and it appears to have fizzled. I don't know what I did wrong.... ;( Note: Now I am fully aware that texting a girl too much and especially in the days before a first date will turn her off and damage attraction. So I'm not going to text her anymore to avoid digging a deeper hole. Note 2: She responds ok, replies my questions and asks about me... as long as I don't flirt.