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  1. I went through something very very similar to what you had to experience. Just somehow worse. Yes, it can be worse. It's been almost 2 years and I am in a much better place. I thought I am... However recently I have had a significant pull back. My symptoms are idealization of the person who used to be my husband for almost 20 years, flashbacks of happy moments, happy dreams, thoughts that I will never meet anyone as good as he was and a huge sense of guilt. Sometimes unbearably huge. For that I was not good enough. I went through this stage once, I came back to my happiness alone, I was not dating, I thought I almost 100% adjusted and was quite happy and balanced most of the time. And now this again. What is that? Why? Will I ever be free?"
  2. In hindsight, I wish my first husband HAD asked for a divorce.
  3. From the moment you discover that you've been cheated on, you feel powerless. So many decisions were made that you had no say in. You cannot force your partner to end the affair and you cannot control if they apologize and put in the work. But that doesn't mean you're helpless. Learn how to regain your power.
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