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I (26M) have been on a string of first dates, with the clear purpose of getting to know the girl and beginning a Long-Term-Relationship, then marriage and kids. I specifically want to meet a girl that has those same goals and who thinks about the future. However, for whatever reason, I can't seem to keep them interested in me beyond the first date. It usually goes like this: - I meet her online, we text, schedule the first date; - First date happens, there is great chemistry with lots of hugging and kissing, we both laugh a lot... everything seems great... - At the end or shortly after... I ask her if she wants to meet again... she says an enthusiastic yes... - Girl then either ghosts or blocks me after a few hours or days... Then I have no choice other than to move on to the next... I mean dating is always cool and exhilarating... but I just want ONE girl. And want to build a future with this one girl. What can I do to fix this?! Pulling my hair out 😞 - I do consider myself attractive enough (the fact I get dates at all is proof of that...), I'm 5'11'' tall, brown eyes, and Am growing out my beard and my hair...