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So for some back story, I 19F and my boyfriend 20M have been in an exclusive relationship for over a year. At the beginning of our relationship, he told me that he didn't agree with watching porn in a relationship but that he wouldn't stop me if I wanted to. I told him that I am not much of a visual person, but that I may use it sometimes and I don't care if he does but he said that he wouldn't. I also provided LOTS of material of myself that he could have been using. He jacked off to porn, his friends on instagram, an onlyfans photo he paid for, and a few creepshots he took during our relationship. I used porn a few times and occasionally thought about other people during sex and masterbation. We both came clean about everything and agreed that both caused and experienced pain as a result of all of this. He said that, that is not the kind of relationship he wants and that he wants to work on this with me, he says he never saw porn in an emotional way and never wanted to sleep with or be with any of these other people, and that these are just things he's done his whole life and he didn't stop, but he wants to now. I feel pretty much the same. I still feel a little bit off about everything and was just looking for a little bit of reassurance, my biggest problem is that he lied to me for so long and disrespected me as well as the unconsenting women he photographed (he said there have only been 4 women since we have been together) and I do believe that he has come completely clean. Has anyone gone through anything similar? Should we keep working on this in your opinion?