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Today I lost a friendship and a part of me feels like it’s for the best but a part of me is also sad about it. I met this particular friend last year , and early on in the friendship she did something wrong to me but I ended up just forgiving her for it and we moved forward. Early on in the friendship she had talked about moving to a different state , so she wanted to come and see the state I’m in to stay for a couple weeks and see if she would like it . I invited her over to my place since I liked who she was and didn’t think it would be an issue. The first week everything was fine , we got along well and a friendship was forming . There was a guy she liked here , so she asked if the guy could come over and I was ok with it . The guy came over and we all were chilling and talking . I got tired and went to bed and left them alone. The next morning she proceeds to tell me that they had done some things , and I didn’t think much of it I ignored it . A couple weeks go by she invites the guy over again, and this time she doesn’t let me know she just alerts me about it a couple minutes before the guy get here , so I was a little upset because I was just planning to chill so I had a talk with her and told her that next time she plans to invite other guests it would be good if she let me know and she apologized and we got over it . The guy came over and again we were all chilling and talking , and I got tired and proceeded to go to bed . As I was getting ready for bed I hear noises , and come to realize it was them having sex on my couch . I was upset about it because I don’t know this guy and I just thought it was rude and a little disrespectful to get intimate in a living room where you are a guest. I did not go out and confront them because I was shocked but I went ahead and messaged a close friend of mine about the situation , because I didn’t know what to do at that moment. I ended up falling asleep and the next day had a talk with her about the whole situation. Again she apologized and I was trying to be ok with it and just move on from the situation. The other day I happened to make a joke about the whole situation and she got really offended. And while talking I mentioned that I talked the situation out with a different friend. She got really upset and started to say I am talking about her private business to others and I am ***ty friend for doing that. I kept explaining that the situation directly involved me as she had gotten intimate at my apartment and I had a right to consult a friend on the matter . But she kept on saying I am not a friend that can be trusted and I talk about her to others. After that a day passed and she came and got her things from my place and brought me my things . She later sends me a long message saying I am such a terrible person. I am saddened by the end of this friendship because I thought we would have been long term friends