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My ex and I broke up about 3/4 weeks ago. It wasn't the best break up he cheated on me. So I ended things. I had planned a trip months before I met him to travel with my friends to Rome for my birthday. When we became a couple I invited him along too. We broke up, and then pretty much didnt really speak I removed myself from his social media etc although he began to follow me again after I removed him. So I had to discuss the holiday with him to which he explained he wanted to go at first then changed his mind and said he didnt want to go because he didnt want to ruin my birthday. So he didnt go... on the flight that was. 2 days later who shows up in Rome with his friend. I didnt know he was coming until his friend messaged me. So we met for dinner he brought his friend and I brought mine. He pretty much ignored me the entire evening. His friend told me he came because of me to see me then didnt say a word. His friend also made the dinner plans not him. I think that was because he was afraid I would say no. I cant wrap my head around it. Why come all the way to Rome, send me texts will kisses on them, refollow me on social media and then not even try to rekindle. I dont think I would get back with him but if he tried I might have been open to the idea given he came all the way to Rome for me or so I was told. Even including xxx at the end of messages made me think maybe he was testing the waters. I just dont know what to say. I was hoping to get a moment to talk to him in private but no, it was like he was avoiding me. one of my friends thinks he was trying to toy with me but I dont think someone would travel hours on a plane to toy with someone's feelings. Any Advice on what to do or what could cause someone to do that? I know some will say just move on and you are right but I am an over thinker and I just need to hear what others think. Thanks x