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  1. My ex-girlfriend and I broke up three months ago after five and the half years of relationship. We are both in our forties. She said she doesn't love me anymore and that she doesn’t have any feelings for me for a longer period of time. Our relationship wasn’t perfect, but there were a lot of beautiful moments as well. We share a lot of happy and nice memories. She had a lot of issues and I was always there for her to help her and support her, and moreover to love her in that moments. At the end of the relationship, I had issues and instead of getting the same support from her, she found a
  2. Sorry for this being so long last month my now (32m) Ex-girlfriend (30F) ended it with me, just a month shy of our 1 year on what was fairly amicable terms, she ended it with me because of the stuff going on in her life, an Ailing father (pancreatic cancer), her new job and other stressors in life. We had been friends prior for about roughly 4 years not close friends but gaming buddies (d&d nerds) and I found out that my buddies wife had been planning the set up for about that time she was just waiting for her to leave her toxic ex. So about two years later she decided to play cupid
  3. Part of my healing at this point is not even hoping that we will get back together, but instead hoping that one day he will realize how he hurt me and feel badly about it. I hope he regrets how he acted. I hope he sees how he hurt me. I hope he understands how he hurt me. Right now he just blames me for everything and points out everything I did wrong. It hurts. It hurts that he never appreciated me and that he took the beautiful that I gave him and threw it in the trash. Will he ever realize all of this? When I am long gone, will he ever regret it and see my point of view of things on
  4. Hi everybody! I desperately need help. Last year I met and dated this guy for whom I fell super hard. Head over heels, crazy. Well, the feelings for him have subsided, but one issue remains. He had recently ended a relationship when we met. Turns out his ex and I look a lot alike. Like sisters. Because of certain things, he made me feel like the reason why it didn't work between us is because he was just out of that relationship. Well, I was shaken to the ground, and now I am obsessed with his ex. It's unhealthy. Her face pops up on my head randomly. Thoughts of comparison to her are constant.
  5. I never thought this sort of thing would bother me, but it's starting to. *Every* time my boyfriend talks about other girls (friends, ex girlfriends, girls he used to like, etc.), he puts in a comment about how good looking they were, or how big their chests were, etc. Some examples just from today: "That girl I went on a few dates with last year, Kristina... she was a REALLY beautiful girl." "There was this girl at Radio Shack yesterday undressing me with her eyes. She was seriously gorgeous. Amazing chest." "The girl from Craigslist selling the bike was so good looking. If I were si
  6. hi decided to start a new thread, hope that's OK? Basically it has now been over a year and we still go for daily runs etc . Even occasional sleep overs (share a bed but nothing like that). We were together 20 years, ex girlfriend and I are in a wierd place, she said yesterday that she wishes we could go back in time and was crying. Having said that she does occasionally blow hot and cold, but if I say I'm going out always asks where I'm going etc. I do, do alot of the chasing and know i shouldn't its just so hard not too. Yes she is like a drug and feel good when I have seen her (16 Yr old d
  7. So my ex gf has been playing a specific game for a long time. After getting to know some people through that game, they formed a group. After that I noticed that she suffered from sleep deprivation (she spend all night chatting and playing) didn't eat properly and pretty much neglected her studies for the degree. When she used to be fully concentrated on it. Those were no assumptions, she talked to me about it and complained that in order to be part of the group she needed to do this and that. So extra responsibilities. It was hurting me seeing her like that, with dark circles ready
  8. Met her the first day of high school. We fell in love and had a relationship for 3 years. I was her first love and she was my first love as well. We're from California but she moved away to Rhode Island to finish High School with her mom. She broke up with me because she had "trust issues". She told me that she loves me and wants me but she has to learn to love herself before she can come back to me. She wants a "different mindset". She didn't block me on Facebook or anything but she does tell me to not message her because it brings pain to her whenever I do. This girl is genuinely the most lo
  9. I spent the weekend in another city helping a girlfriend through a difficult time. He knew this. On Friday he was looking through old photos because he has to do a brief presentation about his life history at work. I was on the train and asked him to send me his favourite photo. He sends me a photo of him and his ex-girlfriend in Portugal. Apparently he thought it would be funny because my Mom now lives there. On Sunday I'm coming back on the train to London and he texts saying "I’d love to see you tonight but my cough isn’t fully gone. I didn’t have any issues with it last night but I a
  10. Me(22) and my ex gf broke up two months ago. She claimed she had enough for how I treated her. I didn’t treat her the best I’ll admit and I have a lot of issues that I realize I now have to deal with. A week after the break up I found out she started dating her friend that I never saw as sexually threatening or anything the same day. Later she admired to going to him with our problems four days earlier and she developed feelings that she claimed had always been there. She is saying that this guy and her are the same in every way and that he’s the “one”. I trusted her and I let her have guy fr
  11. Hi all, I have been together with this girl for a couple of months, not too long, but I feel very strongly for her and I always got the feeling that she feels the same for me. She has been telling me over and over how much into me she is and how I swept her off her feet. However, last week she got very distant and out of the blue broke up with me. Her reasoning was that she felt like my heart wasn't in it and our future plans were not aligned. She came over to explain a few days later, after I had brought flowers to her place, and I made it clear to her that I think she made a wrong decis
  12. Our relationship lasted for 6 months we had our ups and down like all relationships do, when we have arguments and when I am not the one at fault and she is, she would blame me for it, never once has she admitted he was wrong or guilty of anything. She stopped calling me after 3 months in the relationship and said her phone was broken and that she will buy a new one, so I did not think much of it and waited, but even until this day she hadn't bought a new phone but had used her sisters phone (I know her sister) to text me, but didn't even call me. She had 2 facebook accounts and blocked me wit
  13. My now ex gf and I were together for 3 years 3 month back we split. But by chance we bumped into eachother in a different city and got talking again (strange right) it almost seemed written in the stars. She confessed she was depressed to me therefore I helped here through and really done everything for her. Yesterday (now she is better) she told me she’s confused and doesn’t want to be with me no more. I know this time it’s over and I’m completely broken. I have a lot of uni deadlines coming up but I can’t move from my bed.
  14. Some background- this was a very toxic girl who spent our entire time together trying to put me down. While we were together she started to get closer to my friends, and I thought it was a good thing as they could get to know each other. However she began to say things like; "I hung out with Adam today, without you. It was fun I really like him. We have this inside joke, and you're not part of it." At the time I didn't mind it, and honestly this wasn't a weird way for this specific girl to act. We've been broken up for about 2 months now, and since then she has become even closer to my f
  15. Hi guys Me and my ex gf of 3 years broke up 3 months ago and we had no contact for about 2 months . The only time we were going to see each other when one of our close friends was having a baby , but she had messaged me before asking to hang out . I agreed being all excited anyways we saw the baby together and we hung out for about a week after that . We were flirting and it was kind of a fresh feeling like a fresh start I wanted to know what we were and where I stand so I asked her how she felt about starting to talk again and hanging out more often . She was like so confused on what s
  16. Hi, About a month ago I asked for advice on the best way to get an ex girlfriend back. A couple of weeks ago I then asked for some more advice in regards to blocking my ex. This will be the last bit of advice I ask for. If you are interested you can read back on my 2 previous posts. I'm going to summarize. Basically, me and my ex broke up at the end of January. We spoke quite a bit and near the end of February I asked her to rekindle things which she rejected. Near the end of March I told her that It would be best if I were to block her on social media so I could get over her which she a
  17. Hi all this is my very first post having just signed up, I felt the need to find a nice friendly forum where I hope to get things off my chest and receive some nice friendly advice as I dont have many people in my life. Here goes..... I was with my ex girlfriend for 12 years and we broke up 6 months ago.. It was my decision to end the relationship the reasons for doing it were because I felt we had become more friends than partners.. My partner was 17 years older than me when we met I was 21 and she was 37. We had many great years together but towards the last couple of years I sta
  18. I don't know where to start. My ex-girlfriend left me a year ago after being together for 1 year. I've known her for almost 3 years though. Um and it's just been terrible. She just one day decided that she wasn't ready to be in a relationship anymore with me and texted me "I don't love you anymore and I'm breaking up with you." Before she sent this text, we hadn't seen each other for 2 weeks, I thought she needed a break so I let her just text me and not see each other. She was stressed with her school. Later, I found out she was distancing herself from me so it would be easier to leave me. Sh
  19. We talk here and there, nothing major, a text convo or phone call every month or so. Talked to her last time off, I knew she had gone to rehab, a while back. She went to a live in rehab center down in Fl for her alcoholism, got sober on November 26,2018 and has remained so ever scince. I’m as proud of her as I can be. Just wish it would’ve happened while we were together, if so we may have had a different ending.
  20. **in summary, she left me out to dry because she stated she needed to work on herself. We spoke after the breakup and then proceeded to have sex. I really encourage you to read the whole story and help me. Thank you** ---I'll give you a little background. I'm 21 and she is 20. I've been with this girl for 6 months. I know we're not talking very long but she really means a lot to me. (I used to be somewhat of a womanizer until I met her and she changed that part about me) ---So I was gone for about a month doing training and she had a couple things go on and it was just best for her to s
  21. Or ladies has an ex ever came back later on when you have already moved on? I've had two ex boyfriends come back to me after breaking my heart when I no longer cared. They said how much they regretted it and realised what a great thing they had but for some reason it always seems to happen when it's too late. Have you ever regretted a break up later when you tried dating other people and realised it didn't compare to what you had? Or you realise the grass wasn't actually greener? Even if it was months/years later? If so what made you realise that and did you try to make contact again in an a
  22. Idk if this was a bad idea or not but a book how to get an ex back I bought online (sad I know) basically guided me this past rough month to get through my recent break up, I still love my ex even though she broke up with me and I did as the book said and didn't agree to be friends or anything besides on a romantic level, I told her this she didn't have it. I waited a month of NC then the other day over the weekend, I texted her saying I'd like to talk and yadda yadda. Turns out she said i didn't give her "enough time" and she needs time away from me and one month was nothing, she said she's "
  23. I'm in a committed relationship with a man and we've been together for a while. I know that he loves me and considers me beautiful-inside and out. The thing is-I don't think I'm his "dream girl". Now, I don't believe that perfect people exist or anything like that. But he has an ex girlfriend that he was with for a long time, and I feel like she was completely his type, both personality-wise and looks-wise. I know that inner beauty is more important than the way we look, but both still bother me. I know he still cares about her a lot. They still talk every once in a while. I know he's not chea
  24. My ex dumped me on dec 1. The reasons i think was because of a breakdown in communication and her not thinking i was ready for the next step. I'm 27m, she's 25f. She also has a child from her previous relationship, we met when she found out she was pregnant. and that never bothered me. there was an instant connection from day one (her words). I am an only child so i never knew how to act around an infant, though there were times where we were together with the child. We were together for 3.5 years, officially together for about 2. Even talked about moving in together multiple times. When she d
  25. I've looked around and generally, it seems that if a guy gets dumped by a girl, his best bet in getting back together with the girl is to act okay and rarely talk to the girl (so she has a chance to miss him, I think). Is this true? Also, I know that this plan has chances of backfiring and the ex-girlfriend thinking he is not affected by the breakup so he doesn't really care about her and she gives up on him. What are the chances of the plan backfiring? Also, I've been wondering about this plan and it seems it could work if the girl stays single after she breaks up with the guy, but what
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