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Last night, after seeing that a few girls liked my IG picture, she became jealous, overly sweet and overly sexual over text... Said she loved me several times, that she wanted me and needed my touches and kisses... In fact she mast*rbated while we were texting... All was good and dandy, and I thought things were going back to normal... I couldn't be more wrong. -- I was trying to reschedule that fiasco failed date. She said she would give me an answer by Friday. Next day in the morning, apparently out the blue, she texted saying she needed to talk to me -- she switched gears. Started again complaining about the distance between our cities and how she would only see me if and when her sister was able to bring her here... and when she had money... In the beginning she never complained and in fact seemed pretty happy and distance wasn't a problem. The sweetness and naughtyness of last night were replaced by a dry, tired-sounding voice... So I tried a different strategy, this would allow me to gauge her real level of interest. I tried rescheduling the date... this time however I suggested she could just take a bus to my town, and offered to pay for the ticket and also pay for everything else on the date, she wouldn't have to worry about anything, I also intended to go meet her on the bus station. This way, she wouldn't be able to use her sister's car or lack of money as excuses. Her reply now was different, but sadly, still a rejection: "I sincerely don't know what to think. My head is full now..." Despite that, she still keeps her relationship status with me on Facebook. Still has my picture on her IG... I feel she already broke up emotionally with me. I feel depressed... now I need time to grieve this thing... and move on to the next, and this time, healthier relationship... Edit: Now she actually and officially broke up.