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So me and my girlfriend are dating for a little over a year now. It's been 1 month we started living together. Before that, we used to meet nearly everyday. She's 26, I'm 24. Now, after moving in together my girlfriend have taken up a leadership course which has her stay out for multiple days and come back late at night. I naturally am upset about it but ofc I do support her. The course require her to share the most personal things in group and she does it so with a lot of folks. She have made some male friends and talks to them often, for the little time she has at home in these few days with me, she tends to go on audio calling one of her friend. I feel left out and I did not mention it, thought I'll go easy right now cuz the course can be very intense and tiring. Little do I know, she's getting very close to another guy(has girlfriend) which is too uncomfortable for my liking. I don't like to be controlling but I saw her and his messages about how she wants to go to UK and he goes on and ask her to bring him along. some more BLA BLA and then I see some message exchange about bra sizes.Moreover, she's been dressing up Extremely nicely. it's cold as fk outside and she wears short skirt even tho I asked her not to wear skirt because they can be too revealing (controlling me I know but I can't help it). if she asks me not to wear mini skirts, I won't because it makes her uncomfortable. I expect some emotional responsibility in the relationship but I am just not feeling it with her. all in all, it feels like we are not the same like we used to and we are falling apart into different directions.. when I bring such things with her, most of the time, she laughs it off like it's nothing. But my feelings are my feelings, I expect some sympathy. a bit about me. I'm 24, pisces, this is my first serious relationship and I tend to be kind of insecure about things. Maybe I am just wasting her time because if I am not being myself around her then it's pointless to be together because one way or another, we will end up not happy. My values are going to try overtaking her, she is going to resist and boom, we are done. What I want from this platform and you the one reading is some opinions. Be it your own experiences(extremely appreciated), you 2 sense about my situation or just teach me a lesson if I need to learn something about relationships. P.S this disturbance and relationship anxiety has been going on for some time on my side. If you guys want more details on any parts, let me know.