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Hey folks, just wanting to know, what type of sex positions could I try which might bring my girlfriend to orgasm. We try a couple of techniques, but she never comes during sex, it's always during foreplay. Is there any which might bring this forth?!
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the last time i posted here it was on how long do i get is my problem, now after i got married, i notice that im not already aggresive. i want to have sex more than just once in a day. how to maintain my aggresiveness
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Hello, I am new to the forums and i am a 19 year old male. My name is Adam and i have been having sex since i was 17, and been masterbating since i was 14. I can remember seeing a porno for the first time at 14 and telling my friends about it and they said that "Beating the meat" Or so it was called back then was the cool thing to do. How kids of that age knew about masterbation back then blows me away..and the termenology that they used just makes me laugh to this day. Well Anyways, My problem is this. I am seeing this girl right now and we like to have sex quite often..But i feel that i am coming to my orgasm within minuets of penetration. I have heard that this reason could be that ever since i have first started to masterbate (When i was 14) i had only done it to get to the point of my orgasm faster and faster as the feeling was "Godly" At that point, There is nothing i liked to do better, I would do it any chance that i got. I hear that since i did it so often, my body has been tought that its supposed to come to an orgasm that soon. But now that i am older and want to last longer in sex...I am looking for new ways to make that happen. I am afraid of taking any pills for it, i just would like to know..Is there any "Natural" way of doing this to where i can work up to the point of lasting longer and longer in bed? What do i do? Is there anything anyone can suggest to me? Thanks
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These days I'm just doing what I have to do to make it in the world. It's hard being different but it feels like I'm only on a certain level & everyone is still at the bottom. I don't want to sound like I'm saying I'm superior to people or anything.It just seems most people are so ignorant when it comes down to something that's not in societies norm. Ok today at my job an obviously gay couple walked in holding hands. They had t-shirts with gay pride & everything like that. As I watched, I noticed the customers & my co-workers reactions & I just thought it was so funny in a sense. I mean so what?!! They're gay & their in love & so what if they want to express it? I don't understand what is the big deal? Just go about your daily routines. On top of that today, I had a lunch break & it seemed like all of the male coworkers got together to talk about women & sports LOL Of course I have no interest in women or sports so I was bored out of my mind.I wish I could let them know I'm gay & they could just accept me for who I am but I know that's impossible. Saying that I am gay at work will have rumors flying left & right. Not only that, but I would seriously have to deal with the homophobic ones... especially the guys! Basically saying that I am not into talking to girls or into sports.. they may already classify me as being gay or at least being a nerd.All they talked about were the sexy women that walked by the store.They say "Oh she's so hot & I'd do her!!" type comments & they talk about the different women they cheat on & play! I just think it's so immature & childish. I was a littler edgey when one of the guys said, "Did you see that chick just look at you!!?" You better hop on that. I basically replied with a that's alright type response. Then they basically were like what is wrong!? I had to lie & say I have a girlfriend. They got on me about being committed. Ugh... people these days.. I give up on finding other guys like me off the internet. They usually have hidden agendas & they want SEX from you. I'm trying to stop talking to a guy now I met & was talking to. What bothers me so much is that he lied about looking for friends & he even sorta led me on to believe he liked me too. He basically played with my emotions because I sorta developed feelings for him & I'm still trying to get over him. I found out that he meets different guys off of the net almost everyday to have sex!!! Which is so disgusting. Being sexually promiscous like that will probably get him an STD if he doesn't already have one. I'm so turned off by him & he treated me lke crap at the end so I'm trying to cut ties with him now. It seems like no one wants a stable relationship anymore. Everyone just wants one night stands & meaningless sex?? I mean am I the only one who's REALLY LOOKING FOR THE ONE??? Right now I'm a little annoyed with society. I can never really be myself & I can never really do what I want because of people's ignorance.Straight people have it so much easier than gay people. If you see a cute guy or girl, all you have to do is talk to them & if they turn you down, you move on & get over it. We on the otherhand have to worry about getting knocked out or getting looked at weird just because I wanted to talk to another guy. Then 9 times out of 10 he's most likely straight so you never had the chance anyway. Things are rough as always but I guess they'll get better with time. I was just thinking about how messed up this world is. If we could all just come together, there would be less violence & suicides. I'm basically just examining people & I'm watching people & it just seems sad sometimes to me how people are. -
Well I finally had sex with the guy I've been dating for 2 months. Everything was great except that the condom didn't come off on his penis. Instead it was in me. I got it out right away & it looked pretty full still, but I'm still nervous. Any words of advise?
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Ok, I need some older guys to answer me this. Is it possible for our sex drive to stay very active and strong like well into our 40's and 50's without the need for pills or anything? Every older guy I hear talking about this has said that after 35 that there sex life was only a fraction of what it used to be and that they don't have nearly the stamina they used to. I do believe a large part of that is because a lot of guys just seem to let there bodies go and get old and fat, so I am wondering, if I keep working out and running track all the time like I do now, can my sex drive stay as strong as it is now at 23 years old when I am 45 without the need for pills? I hope so, my biggest fear is having to use viagra, or anything like it, it would kinda make me feel like half a man. Currently, I have an extremely high sex drive, I can easily have sex 3-4 times a day every day, but I also work out a lot and run a lot so I do not tire easily during the act. well thanks for any input.
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hiyah! i was just wondering if i should lose my virginity to anyone who i meet or go out with as i sometimes get the feeling that when im in college as im the youngest i feel left out coz most gurls have hd sex and i havent.. i just feel abit pressured! i mean i dont think id want to have sex with the wrong person as iv always believeed to lose my v with someojne very special and think we will be together for quite a long time.. or forever.. someone who understands you and is your soul mate maybe. But i have been think that.. these days you cant really meet your soul mate as most boys will cheat on you or you will go off with someone selse and i was wondering whether i should go and lose my v to someone i meet at a club and get to know him and then we do it? i am just a ittle worried and insecure and wondering if im thinking straight and just want to go along in the crowd. thanks for reading! luv frankee x x x
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Hi all! Sexual orientation. Does it really describe a person's attraction to one sex or the other? I mean, do you necesserely need to have sexual desires for one sex to be of gay or straight? For exemple, Ive always felt attracted towards women. They made my heart skip beats. I have never felt that way about any man. Sexually speaking tho, I think Id prefer to be with a man. But emotionally, I am totally lesbian. I DO want to be sexual with women and they attract me that way too, but when I see men its more like, yeah Id bang them. Im not masculine at all but I wish I was a guy to be able to have hetero sex with girls cause it looks very pleasurable. So what is SEXUAL orientation without considering romantic, emotional orientation?
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Ok trying to have sex with my girlfriend last night we are both virgins and we are both 18 years of age. Well she is really tight and everytime she is on her back and I am between her legs standing up from my knee's I try to insert it but it just wont go. Any tips or idea's? She is really really tight and well putting a big thing into a small area is pretty hard to do. It makes us both mad. But how do you get past. And am I doing the position right or should I use another one?
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Just a question: isn't it true that when taking birth control it is ok to miss a period sugar pill? I am meticulous about my pills and have never missed, except once and it was one of the placebo pills. I didn't even think about it becuase I could swear I remember my doctor saying they are just there to maintain the habit & give you extra iron. I guess lately I've been having second thoughts because I've been having more sex than I did before. I'm also wondering - the other night my boyfriend (who uses condoms every time & checks them all) and I had sex four different times and today I feel almost crampy in the uterus area, almost like a period. Could that be because I'm relatively new to sex? I know with all these precautions it's nearly impossibele to get pregnant. I'm just really confused! Thansks in advance
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I've been seeing this girl for 2 or three months now. She's fun and all, but I don't know if I really love her. In fact, I'm not sure how interested I am at all. Two days ago, we tried to have sex, but it didn't work out (metaphor: trying to fit a banana in a ginger ale bottle), and maybe it was for the better. Since the beginning I've been hoping that I will develop feelings for her. She's boisterous, cute, and a very sweet person. I still haven't. I recognize any feelings I have towards her are strictly physical, and I know she feels stronger about this than me. Either way I know I'm going to hurt her. If the relationship continues, and we continue things physically, I know I will have to let her down at some point. If I cut things off, she will be heartbroken. To complicate things, I work with her. I'd have to see her everyday afterwards if I broke things off. I care enough about her to end it before we get in too deep (which, I feel we may already be), but I care about her enough that I don't want to make her cry. What do I do?
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did it feel good or did it feel kind of weird? When my boyfriend first went down on me (he was my first), it felt weird. I didn't say anything at the time, but I was thinking "Er, this feels strange and different." I wasn't turned on right away. When I went down on him, I was uncomfortable just because I find the penis intimidating! I know this is mostly just an issue of finding out what my boyfriend likes and such, but boy the first time I was thinking. "Ok, now what the f*** am I supposed to do?" I was there I think 10 seconds and gagged I think twice. My boyfriend was totally happy I tried it, even if it was super short. Of course sex just takes time to get used to and find out what feels good and what doesn't, but I couldn't help but wonder what folks first time experiences were like? I'm sure I wasn't the only thinking "This feels funny."
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I am writing this hoping to get some male perspectives but any feedback is welcome. I have written before ( too many times) but it always helps to get new opinions. My boyfriend was a 26 year old virgin when we starting dating. I am still not sure why he remained a virgin for so long. He is attractive and smart and he had some ample opportunities so lose his virginity. He says he was just waiting for the right person. Needless to say he lost his virginity on our second date. Before we started dating my boyfriend had a very high sex drive and went to strip bars pretty often. He has always seem to have a very strong attraction to strippers. We have openly talked about how I am not the "type" he would generally be attracted to but that his attraction to me has grow overwhelming as he has fallen in love with me. That okay with me, cause he isn't the "type" of guy that I am normally attracted to and my attraction to him is now overwhelming as well since I have fallen in love with him. In beginning our sexual relationship was very active. Like any new couple we couldn't get enough of each other. And for the past two years we have consitantly had a very good sex life. According to my boyfriend it just got better and better over time. At first my boyfriend was open about his level of attraction to other woman. We discussed one day having a threesome or opening our sexual relationship up and bringing in other partners. But then around five months ago he opened up to me and admitted he had been fantasying about having sex with other woman and that he didn't know if he could go his whole life only having sex with me. Unfortunately at the time we were sort of having problems and I was very insecure in the relationship. So I reacted very badly and sort of freaked out. Since then I have gained more security in our relationship and believe that it would eventually be appealing to me as well to open up our sexual relationship and experiment with others. However it will take me a while to really decide if that is something that will work for me or not. So I am just keeping it on the back burner. He has never mentioned it again and he now seems to repress and hide from me his attraction for other woman. A few weeks after he mentioned his desire for other woman I suggested that we both take some time and see other people. He didn't want to. He was too afraid of losing me. So for the past five months we have just been committed to each other and have not discussed opening our sexual relationship at all. I don't feel pressured to do it and I wouldn't do it if it wasn't something that I felt 100% comfortable with. And I do think that in time it would even be a turn on to see my boyfriend with another woman and the thought of having sex with another man I am attracted to without threatening my relationship is very appealing. I have always been very open about sex. And I think we could get to a place where I felt secure enough to do this. Also I want to add that a few months ago my boyfriend starting experiencing pain after sex. It seems to be around his prostate and he went to see a doctor. The doctor did a full exam and told him that there was nothing to worry about. Since then he says that the pain is gone but I wonder if he is in fact hiding the pain from me. He knows that I will prompt him to go to another doctor and he would rather live in denial. He thinks most physical problems are really all in our head and are manifestations of repressed emotions. Now we get to the heart of my question. Lately my boyfriend seems to enjoy sex less and less. I think it is the natural progression of a relationship. The newness has sort of worn off and it's starting to become more of a comfortable shoe sort of thing. I try to keep things exciting. I wear sexy lingerie all the time and strip for him. I spend time trying to seduce him. I send him dirty text messages and try new positions. I never ever turn him down for sex. but there seems to be only so much you can do to keep it exciting. I ask him for feedback about what would turn him on and he rarely answers me , either he doesn't know what turns him on or he's afraid to tell me. Last night after making love I asked him if it was as good as it used to be , he honestly answered no,but then he explained that amazing sex isn't really that important to him. That sometimes it's as great as it was in the beginning, but that it doesn't have to be earth shattering every time. That he is okay with that and that he still enjoys it immensely. What I am wondering is if that really is normal and if anyone has any suggestions on how to rekindle some of the newness. We already role play and we have tried a tiny bit of bondage. I was thinking of treating him to a lap dance at a strip club hoping to arouse him a little but it just never seems that appropriate to say " hey let's go get you a lap dance" Plus I thinks a good opportunity to see how I feel with him being intimate with someone else. I wonder if anyone thinks that will help our sex life. We have watched some porn but not a lot. Do you men think that he is totally unsatisfied and covering it up? Shouldn't hot sex always be important. Any has any success with putting the spark back into their sex life?
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...and im excited lol. me and my gf have been going out for 5 months now (we have a great relationship), and we both talked about it earlier this week and decided that we want to lose our virginity to each other next week, after her prom. (yea i kno its cliche but its a good oppurtunity lol). we already know to use protection..im really not even worried about looking a fool, cuz with two virgins of course theres gonna be some..mistakes lmao. i obviously want to make her senior prom the best night of her entire life, so i want the sex to be at least somewhat good..what i was planning to do is start off slow and pretty much hit all the bases before actually doing it (including cunnilingus), basically i just want her to be turned on as much as possible, even if that means putting her sexual needs before my own. basically what i want to know is if that sounds like a good approach to it, and if theres any other tips anyone has. (Besides 'be safe' lol, i kno to be safe and we've definitely got that covered...no pun intended lmao). thanks guys
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hey guys, the reason i ask is because i'm a bit confused. Theres this girl i've been talking to for awhile now and she is more or less me in every respect. I know thats cliche'd (i know i thought so) but she really does like all the same things i do, and even wants the same relationship goals i do. I can say any opinion i have without fear because 9 times out of 10 im almost positive she shares it and it will open up a whole nother part of our relationship. I'm not sure if its the beginning love because i haven't been in love before i don't think, and this feels alot different than the other times. It might be infatuation though...so im sure there are ways to tell that. There are just a few weird things i've noticed: 1. the cliche things about love. like the happiness whenever i see/hear from her, finishing each other's sentences, even allowing myself to open up and call her a pet name every once in awhile. Nothing big, just saying hey lover or something along those lines, but i never could do it before because it felt weird. 2. the weird new feelings im starting to have. I won't lie im a big fan of sexual things, i love them...its on my mind alot during the day and of course at night. She on the other hand wants to wait until marriage for sex. Normally that annoys me because i usually feel like they won't be able to handle my sex drive. But with her its different, i have yet to seriously think about sex with her, or even doing anything outside of kissing her. I mean i have thought of sensual things like spending the night with her but it never turns into a sexual fantasy....never. We always sleep in my dreams haha. The reason this shocks me is because its so against what i've been about for so long. I mean im an 18 year old guy come on...its on our minds ALOT. The only way i can sum it up is that having her around makes me feel like i should become a better person to make myself worth her time, and it so far it hasn't been hard to do at all. 3. Yesterday i had an absolutely horrible day, everything that could go wrong went wrong. I felt like i had a million problems and laid on the couch for hours just lamenting my situation as people tend to do. Around 9 o clock i called her and as soon as she said hello i felt better. We talked for an hour...and after that hour on the phone i was feeling as if i'd had the best day ever. We then moved it to the computer and were talking online until 1 AM. I realized that i always feel like that and even when i am at my worst she makes me feel good. No joke i was close to telling her i couldn't talk that night but her voice cured all of my problems. 4. Here's a kicker, she has me talking about feelings. Something I used to do quite frequently but have since stopped because it creeps girls out. Last night she sort of lead me into a conversation about our future together. She seems to think its a bright one if you get what im saying...and i talked about it. For the first time in so long i can't remember i felt comfortable talking to someone about what my life would be like if i was spending it with her. This might be because everything i want to happen in my married life she either suggested, or agreed to ecstatically. She even thinks my wedding present of taking ballroom dancing lessons is a good idea. I never really told it to people because i considered it pretty lame haha. I know it isn't full-on love yet. It hasn't been long enough for that. I i do like her though, alot, and have for the last 2 months or so. Just talking to her for hours and hours each day has me wondering if i've finally found someone who i won't feel forced to love. If you guys can understand that...in my relationships i've always felt like i should love the person, like it is what is expected. So i just said i love you to them. There weren't any major sparks that flew when i said it that i can remember, but i do know that calling her lover sends a big smile to my face. And when she uses her pet names for me (too embarrassing to put here but i love them to death) i get a weird feeling that i can't even begin to describe. I guess its just pure happiness? Thats the best i can do haha. What do you more experienced enotaloners think? Am i on my way to finally falling in love?
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I've had this best friend, a girl of course, for almost two years. We're somewhat inseperable. We spend every moment together when we're not working, we cuddle, we occasionally hold hands, etc. We closer then I have ever been to any other girl before... We're so close friends and complete strangers comment that we're lesbians, but we do nothing but just laugh it off... For the past few months I've found myself growing closer to her, not in a friendship way, but in the way of a crush. I've recently come to terms that I'm bisexual, I had been dying to tell her for months, then I finally did yesterday. We took one of our aimless car rides (to Miami) so we had a lot of time for those good old highway talks. We launched into a conversation regarding her current boyfriend. She told me how she was planning to break it off with him because she's not happy, the sex is short, and she's left to do the job on her own... So I added my advice and all and the conversation led into sex. Now I knew she was bisexual before this relationship, I didn't know if that stopped or not so I went ahead and asked her, she said, "I don't care what people say once you're really bi, you're always bi. I haven't hooked up with a chick in awhile because of this relationship." So then I realized it would be alright to go ahead and tell her, she wasn't shocked or anything she just knew "I was keeping something from her..." So we continued our aimless drive stuck in rush hour traffic and talked about our bisexual experiences. Trust me, that got my excited, and now I'm even more hopeful then I was that something could become of our relationship. I'm absolutly crazy about her, her eyes, her body, her personality, I honestly think I've fallen in love with the person she is.... but I didn't go as far as to tell her that... We kept talking and she was saying how she hasn't had sex with a girl in "soooo long" not sounding like she didn't want to. We were sitting at a rest stop and out of the blue she said, "So what if we were to get together who would be the butch and who would be the femme?" So now I know that she's breaking it off with her boyfriend that there might be a chance for me, or just some wishful thinking at least... My question all of you is, do you think she wants me. We have a much closer relationship then most friends, she will turn around and stare at me in the eyes, then I always find her going to my mouth, we stare at eachother for what seems like minutes before she turns her head and comments on something else. We cuddle on the couch and as we fall asleep, we will hold hands occasional, swap massages. I just feel such an incredible strong connection to her and I wonder if it's just me lusting for her, or if anyone else thinks it's really there? So out of my aimless rambling (in hopes of getting you guys to fully grasp what's going in my head, sorry it's so long) I want to know your opinions, I'm dying to make a move, and now that I know she's open to hooking up with girls, I'm wondering if I should go for it, and if I should how to go about that... or if she's even attracted to me (although that day she commented on how beautiful I looked) Please and thank you oh so much, I really need the help...
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First,I want to ask you-which do you prefer-someone who's had sex and is experienced in the area,or a virgin,and the two of you to share it for the first time(or perhaps just his/her first time).I don't know why,but when I find out that my boyfriend or the guy I'm currently dating is not a virgin,I just stop being attracted to him.And the opposite.When he's inexperienced,I feel much more physical connection.It seems so weird to me I'm dating this guy who's sweet and all,but I'm wondering if there's a indirect way of finding out whether he's had sex or not.Damn,just as I read this,I realise how strange I am sometimes
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I just found out that my bestfriend's boyfriend cheated on her. He has also been hitting on another one of my friends behind her back. The cheating happened about 4 months ago and i don't really know how to deal with this situation for afew reasons. 1) First of all im good friends with her boyfriend and we all always hang out together. 2) She's depressed and I don't know how she's going to take the news 3) the girl he had sex with has genital warts but apparently they didnt have sex during an outbreak so he didn't catch it? (thats what I've been told) 4) A lot of my friends are going to be very mad at me if i tell her and lets jus say that "all hell will break loose" when/if i do. I'm upset that its be who is put in this position to tell her because she's the sweetest and nicest girl in the world. It's going to break her heart if she finds out. Also the reason I found out about this is because another one of my friends had sex with the same girl at the same time and he just came out of the closet about it. He's the one who also told me about the girl having genital warts. How should I deal with this? I know I should probably tell her, but its so hard.
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My girlfriend and I were both virgins, she had never done anything with a guy before so she was clean, I had messed around with my ex and a couple other girls but I was/am tested regularly and I'm clean. She's also been on the pill for about 4 months. Last weekend her folks were gone and we had a small party at her place, we were fairly baked and once everyone else left we ended up having sex without a condom. Normally spooning, doggy style, or her on top with me sitting up will get her off pretty quickly, but she's never been able to have multiple orgasms through sex, it has to be me working the g-spot and using my tongue. When we didn't use a condom she got off first really quickly, and had a session of multiple orgasms just through intercourse and a little bit of my hand. She got off multiple times before I did once. Felt great for me too, and (not gonna lie) I really enjoyed the pull and spray rather than just busting off in the condom. We've had stoned sex before with condoms on and it wasn't this good, so it's not just drugs that made it great. Now, here's the problem: When we tried having sex totally sober without condoms she couldn't get off at all, because she said she was too afraid of getting pregnant. I have great self control and am not worried about accidentally coming inside of her, but she says that's all she can think about. So now we end up starting off without a condom and then putting one on in a minute or two, even though I normally have no problems going 15-20 minutes for the first time. Any ways to try and help my girlfriend get off this mental block? I obviously don't want to have a kid, but they say the pill when taken correctly is around 95% effective and pulling out is about 85% effective, so if you combine the 2 you're looking at something like a .5% chance of pregnancy, which is pretty miniscule. I'm not so much worried about my pleasure as hers, because she really enjoyed it before, and I'm going to get off either way so I don't really matter.
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Well, this just pisses me off. I'm not getting any. Golly, it would be nice too. But I just don't do the casual sex thing (otherwise I thinks lots of guys would be happy to oblige). My number's pretty low I think for my age. And I usually seek something more committed before doing anything. I mean there's too many risks out there, stds, aids, pregnancy, crappy men. I dont want to get involved with that. Well, last guy I was with, I told him I wanted great sex, lots of it, and steady sex....and to have fun and adventures. I'm young.....not too old, not too young, and I want to have fun. and Welp, let's just say I am stressed out today, pissed off, and he couldn't even give me that. I mean he's long gone...but he knew what I wanted. >=( Lots of sex with one person. I just want to hear from all those who aren't getting any either. (for whatever reason). Misery and frustration like company. I'm also really stressed. gahhhhhhhhhhh
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Ok, I'm 23 and I just got tested and waiting for the results (will find out on Wednesday). I dont have much of a sexual history (2 partners) but I had unprotected sex with the last girl (little over a year ago). Not smart at all Also adding that this is the first time i've gone for tested, so yeah, I'm quite a bit nervous. I'm trying to find ways to pass the time but it's seriously on my mind and I can't shake it off. I hate thinking of the fact that because of a slipup in judgment I might die early. I know even if i'm positive it isn't the end of the world. I just needed a place to go to talk. I hope this is it..
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Hi there, I'm new to the forum. This seams like a board full of intelligent and enlightened people, just the place to ask about my difficult situation. I'm a straight women with, I think, good intuition. But I do not possess the sixth sense known as "gay-dar." I promise I am the last to know about others' sexual preferences. I've been the last girlfriend of a couple of guys. A while back I went out on several "dates" with a consultant from my office --he talked about his ex-roommate's amazing modern furniture collection, and I thought he meant in collage-- and I never imagined he might be gay. That is, until he introduced me to his new boyfriend a few months later. Right now I'm seeing someone who, apparently, registers on many people's gay-dar. He's stylish and soft spoken, he attends art openings, works out, and is admirably neat around his well-decorated home. He jokes about how he is straight, but is constantly hit on by guys. How others see him doesn't bother me, so long as I'm not getting in the way of his discovering a new way to see himself. He's always the first one to point out hot guys, or shirtless guys, or guys in tights. I've never had a boyfriend before who seemed so aware of these things, but that alone is not a problem for me. Other things might be, though. We've been spending a lot of time lately with another couple. I'm pretty sure the guy in that couple is bi. Again, I'm not good at spotting 'em, but he's very stylish and has a whole lot of rainbows around his house. Also, my boyfriend said the guy made a pass at him once. The four of us have been taking in musical theatre and going to wine tastings --not once, at any of these events, have I seen this guy and his "girlfriend" so much as hold hands-- and every time we're together it seams like this fellow is getting closer to making a move. If he isn't interested, I don't understand why my boyfriend isn't being more direct with this guy. Instead, he's planning the menu for our next dinner with them. Perhaps I'm reading too much into things, I don't know. I love this guy. We have a great relationship, both in and out of the bedroom. Maybe I shouldn't worry, but I wonder what is the right thing to do? I certainly don't want to keep my boyfriend from exploring things he needs to about himself. Nor do I want to push him down a road he wasn't meant to go. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. -
Im greatful for loads of things i have but i never thought my life would be this crap. ha. After getting in oodles of debt at uni, and not finding a job related to my degree i have took a series of pointless unfulfilling jobs, i live with my parents, i am stressing about nc, tomorrow i am signing on (yuk i am gross), all my friends are getting married, getting mortgages, having babies i have not had sex for 4 weeks and when i last did it wasnt very entertaining and to top it all off i have developed a pot belly from being on the pill, and i was only on that for the past nc boy. what i want so much is 1. A job one that i love or actually like (i got an interview for nxt week i want this 1 so much). 2. My own flat/ sex shack where i can drag willing men back to and have meaningful sex for like min 4 hours at a time. 3. Some cash i swear i not got myself anything shiny or pretty for such a long time.. so in all i want money, sex and somewhere to use it. hmmmm. interesting thanks for listening
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So there's this guy that I work with and I like him soooo much.And I know he likes me to b/c he flirts with me all the time.Well,I'm upset right now because he just took me home and we were flirting and everything when he said he just wanted to "hit it".And we've talked about this before.I've told him how I don't want a guy to just want me for sex.I don't know,maybe he was just joking.I'm not sure.After he said that,I told him that nothin would probably happen between us then.Because I don't want him to just want me for sex.See,he recently got divorced last year and he hasn't had sex for like 8 months.So I can see how he might be a little bit desperate.He did say though that if sex was all he wanted,he could go get somewhere else.I just don't know.I really like this guy.And I want him to like me as well.And not just for sex either.What do guy's think.Am I overreacting?Do you think he was just joking around?
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My b/f i think has a lot of sexual experience. We have gotten into a lot of arguments about various things not just trust and all that. He says he does not want to argue as much. He said if he wanted to f around on me--he can do it at the drop of hat and i said it is that easy for you? He said with people he does not talk to anymore or he avoids because he knows if he wanted to--he can call them up and invite them over simply for sex. That actually kind of hurt--how it is that available to him and it even makes it harder for me to trust that a guy is able to turn this down. He said me wondering who he talks to is not going to break us up--its the stupid arguments we have. I have so many conflicting emotions. I have such a hard time trusting a guy who is telling me he can cheat on me in an instant if he wanted to. I guess he is just being honest. I just feel so horrible right now. Help.
