Well we broke up about a month ago, mainly because he said he felt i wasn't ready for a relationship and neither was he. I wouldn't blame him in saying such a thing because the way i acted towards him the majority of the times was uncalled for. Im not putting all the blame upon me because i know he had fault too but i am going to be women enough and say that i did trigger most of it with my attitude and all. However him saying he wasnt ready i believe he said that inorder to not make him feel inferior or pathetic in any way.
Eversince then we do occasionally say hi to eachother in school, we talk 2 eachother whenever we get a chance to, which is hardly ever, i persitently catch him glancing over towards wherever im at and vice versa. Ive been trying to abide by the no contact method but i have to admit i have slipt at times either by approaching him and asking him certain things or writing him a letter (i did that once) Weve been on spring break and ive promised myself not to call him and distract myself as much as possible and ive done good for myself because the whole week has passed and i havent made any attempt to do so.
In about three weeks from now there going to be selling prom tickets at my school and i really would want him 2 come with me as my date. I just dont know how to ask him or approach him with such a thing being that i havent talked to him in a long time, were not that close as we were before, and i have no idea whats going on in his life now. One thing that i do believe is that he might be doubtful of coming along due to financial situations. I believe i can help him with some of the costs and i dont believe he'll mind (due to past experiences we've had) but i just dont know how to ask him to come with me. There is another alternative. There is this guy i had a crush on for about 3 years and he suddeny re- appereared into my life soon after the break-up. He could be an option, but problem is my parents do not really approve of him, i dont think i'll be too comfortable w/ him and my friends in the same space, and i really want my ex to go instead. How should i approach him with such a question? what should i do? what should i say? i need help asap. thanx
