Rjones91

Haven't spoken to my ex in over 60 days. All I can say is...GOODBYE AND GOOD RIDDANCE. I am truly happy to say, I do not have the urge to ever contact my ex again. Out of sight and out of mind truly worked for me. NC rules

Day 12 of complete NC and Day 45 of very LC....and I just heard you were chosen for a job 6hrs away. I'm kinda shocked, as I am feeling a little hurt that you will be leaving soon, but I wish you and the boys well. I haven't been this emotional at all since the breakup, wondering why I am getting all emotional now. I miss the boys really bad and I am slowly beginning to miss you as well. Not enough to pick up the phone and call or text you though. Continuing on my journey forward, as I hope and pray to lose all feelings I have for you really soon. I love you and congrats on your new gig. PS: I definitely won't be contacting you with any congrats and that kinda oddly placed a smile on my face and a chuckle in my heart. Weird but hey, its working for me at this very moment and I am most important at this time.

Beginning Day 4 of NC as I texted you Saturday to see if you received your son's basketball schedule yet. I don't really have the urge to contact you, but I know its your sons' 7th birthday this weekend. I wanna call and wish him a happy birthday, but I will not. Wishing you and your sons all the best from a distance. I've finally accepted we are done and I have begun my journey of detaching and letting go. I miss you guys deeply but I know I have to keep my distance and heal. I'm doing this for me

Today makes Day #4 NC. She has been texting me since Sunday trying to explain that she was having phone issues, (yet she was liking my pics on instagram over the weekend). I know she spent the weekend out of town with her ex from 3yrs ago and it was basically the nail in the coffin. I have nothing to say to her. She called and texted today, as well as asking me if I am not talking to her again (I didn't respond). She also left me a voicemail but I refuse to listen to it either. It hurts like hell, but I don't need her, nor am I gonna accept her consolation prize of being her friend. I have plenty of real friends that do not lie to me. Staying strong as I refuse to respond to her in any shape or form. She doesn't deserve to hear my voice again. Continuing my quest of letting go and complete NC.

You texted me today but you are on my block list. I had no desire to text you back but I am curious as to what you said. I refuse to be your backup plan, option or your consolation prize....I deserve so much better. I forgive you for the lies but I am letting you go and moving on with my life finally. Goodbye!!!!!

Today starts Day 1 of NC. I am looking forward to not looking behind me. Going to cancel the order on the shoes you convinced me to order you that you so desperately wanted. I love you, but I love me more. I am no longer afraid to let you go...I wanna curse you out for leading me on these past few months, but I will do you and myself the biggest favor and move on with my life without you in it. I will continue to smile knowing I am one day closer to getting you out my system. Goodbye and Good Riddance.