GTP

Man I am in the same postition as you. We've just done the kiddy stuff like holding hands etc. She still has a BF (but does not tell me yet but have heard through the Great Vine) but she seems like she is totally into me giving me all the signs and we hang out a couple times a week. Except I'm in another bind I guess because we met through a me being an employee and her being one of my customers. I'm at the point where I guess I'm just going to go for the kiss and see what happens. If its rejection I guess I'll just move and I'm thinking you maybe should do the same

I think I would call her and talk about the job a little bit. MAYBE setup a interview but then lead on to other more personal talk. In my opinion though it would be better to talk to her in person and then ask her out sometime.

Would anyone else like to give some insight??? TTT

I guess I don't see a problem with it! I work at a bank and also going on dates with a customer. I don't really think it will effect our work/customer relationship.

Yeah were probably going to a movie (the movie out with Ashton Kutcher...can't remember the name). I'm thinking of making the move before the movie. We hold hands for short periods of time. Just a flirting way I guess.

She is definitely someone I want! I feel great when I'm around her! I'm just not that great at going for the 1st kiss. I feel that I'm a confident guy and pretty outgoing but when it comes to the first kiss I just can't seem to do it. Any recomendations on going for the 1st kiss?

The other day I found out that this girl that I've been on a couple dates with has a BF (found out through a mutual friend) It's like she is trying to hide it. Like last friday she locked her keys out of her car on a street a couple down from mine and she just said it she was parking there to go to the party where I was at. Well later I found out that the street where she locked her keys in her car was her BF's house and she stays at his house most of the week. Well she drove my car to her parents house (I was a little drunk) to get her keys and we just hung out there for a while then later she drove me back home where she went to "get her car" a few blocks down (where she ended up staying). She is a really cool and cute girl but I'm debating if I should keep pursuing. I haven't went for the 1st kiss yet because I feel kind of ackward that she has a BF and doesn't let me know and from my perspective as well as friends we all think shes wants us to get together. I'm horrible at going for the 1st kiss and this situation makes it even worse. Should I go for it? and say screw the BF...maybe she will break up with him>? This whole situation just makes me wanna Edit: BTW I'm 19 and have my own place if it matters at all?