TwiLight172
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I'm not even seeing him at all tonight. I just sent him a text message and told him I wouldn't do it. Hopefully he'll respect me for this because I truly am a nice person and I'm not the kind to cheat... I really am not. I don't know what has gotten into me... it must be a combination of boredom or anger because after 5 years I have no ring on my hand and not even a sock drawer at his house. I'll be ok though. Thanks for the advice.
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I'm going to stop things between us before they go any farther. I am seeing him today before i go to work and I'll tell him I can not talk to him or see him anymore. I feel like I dont even know how to act around my boyfriend anymore so I guess I know what to do now.
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"If you can't accept her for who she is then do her a favour and let her find someone who loves her for who she is inside," I'm sorry but that's BS. What is so bad with being attracted to someone who looks a certain way? It's not superficial, you can't help what you like!
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I really am scared to because I truly love my bf but I find myself so compelled with a man I recently met. I am physically, mentally, and emotionally attracted to him whereas my boyfriend, I lack that physical component (he's gained weight and is not trying hard enough to lose it). I keep telling myself that I will not talk to this man again but still I continue to. I told him I couldn't do it anymore, we stopped talking for 2 days and then he text messaged me and it all started again. We have not held hands, or even kissed but I can feel the sexual tension between us. I don't know what to do, i don't even know WHY i'm having these feelings for him. Has anyone ever been in this situation? I'm not sure what to do or what to think.
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Honestly, it sounds as if she is not doing her part to please you at all. It is not wrong for you to want her to lose weight... i mean after all, you are attracted to the thinner version of her. That is who you first met. My bf, like your gf, is not doing his part to lose the weight. He signed up for a membership yet has only started going once a week. It pisses me off because i've tried everything possible to get him to WANT to lose the weight. From what you say, it sounds as if you and her have grown apart. I would tell you that you should not marry her because if she is comfortable now could u imagine what it will be like when or if you get married? SHe's going to let herself go even more. She needs to want to change and she's not. Just let her go.
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I went to the gyne about a year ago for an infection I was having (not STD) and I had them but she didn't say anything....I do want to go to the doctor but I have no insurance right now. I guess I have to figure something o ut
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I have noticed that I have 3 bumps on my labia majora near the outside. It is not Herpes cause i've actually had them for a couple of years and they don't hurt...basically the symptoms don't fit what I have. And they don't look like warts either. They are not painful, have no discharge or crusting, they are just smooth and round. Oh and they're not clustered either. Could this be warts or is it normal to have some bumps on the vagina?
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No, i am not with him for any money. You're right, I guess it is also my fault for not being as open, it's just hard cause I don't really know what to say. But you have given me a good example, thanks.
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Hi somebrunnette, well he is just boring. He doesn't talk dirty to me or even tell me how much he wants me or how hot he thinks i am, when he kisses me there is no passion. He doesn't try to caress me, and maybe if he does say something it'll be like "You're hot" and he'll laugh after that. Even when we start off, he won't start off slowly and work his way up. It's just so frustrating that I dont even want to do it with him anymore. Today after we did it, I told him that I wanted him to maybe be more vocal in bed and he asked why all of a sudden I wanted that...and said that he wasn't the type to talk dirty and stuff liek that.
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Well im not as attracted to him as I could be I guess but if he was a good lover that would not matter to me
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Ok, well I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 years. He was pretty much my first everything. We broke up in between those five years and sustained no contact for about close to 2 years. In those two years I had another relationship with a very nice guy. He truly showed me what great sex is. When i was with my first guy I always knew he wasn't good because it was so hard to get me off....sometimes I thought it was my fault but when i started going out with the other guy I knew it wasn't me. Well, I ended up breaking up with the newer guy because even though we had the best sex, i knew he wasn't the one for me. I am since back with my first boyfriend and I'm happy with the relationship and would love to spend the rest of my life with him but, he is terrible in bed. Is there any way to teach someone to be a good lover? I don't know if u can actually make someone a passionate lover if it just isn't within them. What should I do?
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We always use protection and I dont give him oral sex but he has asked for it and i wanted to make sure just in case.
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My boyfriend has genital herpes and I was wondering if i could get it from giving him oral sex even if he didn't have any symptoms or present sores? And if so, what kind of sores could i get if it's possible to transmit this way?Thank you
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I seriously have not been happy with my current relationship. We dont see each other enough, he lives about 25 miles away from me, and there are something things about him which i do not like. This is my second boyfriend and i have nooo clue how to dump someone. Any advice?
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I think ur right. ^ he deserves a chance and I'm going to stick by him.