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Well he did kiss me on the lips and is trying to eat from the same plate as mine, but he won't go for a deep kiss. What I am saying is that you guys over exagerated things. I just want him to kiss me the "deep kiss". Do I ask from him ( force him by words) to kiss me? BTW, he have positive opinion about sex...so don't worry Also, I was disgusted when I has my first kiss. Once I tried it, i liked the feeling.

My fiance thinks kissing is disguisting. He is disguisted if he eats from any one's plate, or drinks from another cup,... How can I change this, I am becoming his wife soon? He want him to kiss me. He always kisses me on the cheek but can't I have a little more than that?

Hi SLBG, Not all girls are the same. I was talking in general about most girls and how we think. Your girlfriend still have feelings for you, but give her time to realize this. She needs to miss you. However, if you have hurt her via words such as "I don't want you to talk to me or stop calling here," she will never forget that. This is when her love for you should and will turn to hate. My advise for you is always stay the good guy whenever you break up with any of your girlfriends. You would be showing your girlfriend that you are around for her as a friend first then as a lover, then she will want you back really bad. Trust me, it works for all of us. By the way, give yourself some time to realize that you don't want some one who does not want you. You deserve some one who treats you better than this.

Stingseed, it is true girls take time to forget but if their love turned to hurt then their hurt will eventually turn to hate. If she really loved him it would take her about a year until she starts thinking of some other guy who is compatable to the old boyfriend in looks plus other qualities she did not find in her x. Any how, I know how we function after a break up (hurt & stuff), but I would like to know how you men deal with a break up considering you have initiated it. Also I am talking about men ur age.

Hi Angelized, I am sorry that you are hurt. Nobody here will help you with you feelings, but we can only advise you and you can either accept or ignore what we are going to say. First of all, if I advised you to stop loving him, you will not listen cause it is just a strong feeling that is taking over you. So my advise is to get yourself busy with school, sports, work, friends... Cry, Cry alot and talk to your friends about him, but it is time to use the no contact rule. By not contacting him, you will definitely get the answer to your questions. He will either come back to you because he misses you, or you will forget him and find someone new. Listen, if he said he does not want you, why you still want him? You were attracted to him from the beginning because he wanted you and cared for you. I know you were happy and that's why you want him back right? But soon you'll be happy again with someone who really wants you and loves you. Just be patient. You'll get what you deserve.

Thanks for your reply, you seem a very logical person. I want to cause no harm, and I would be sad if he lefts his baby for me. Sometimes, like yesterday, I felt miserable and started crying until I sent him a message and he replied. I am only asking for his love. I moved back to my country, and I won't be seeing him for a long time (maybe forever). Can't I just ask from him to talk to me on the phone? Is this wrong in your opinion? I am getting married (arranged marriage) in the summer; maybe then I might forget him. What do you advise me?

Can a man sleep with his exgirlfriend while he is thinking about another woman? Does a physical relationship makes a relationship stronger for the man? Well here's my story. My exboyfriend had a one night thing with a woman and she got pregnant. He wanted to deny the unborn baby. Then he met me after the problem has happened and after he made her pregnant. Not knowing of the problem, we went out for couple of months (we fell inlove...I never slept with him though because it is against my culture). I advised him to go back to take care of his baby. He is married to the other woman now. I still call him, eventhough it has been 9 months since I've seen him. From his voice and words, I know he still have feelings for me. You think he still loves me eventhough he is sleeping with his wife?

Hi every one, From a woman's perspective, you guys failed. Every lady accepts to go through a relationship hoping that it would become a commitment one day. Guys are scared of commitment but it is a wonderful thing especially with the woman his heart chooses. Why are you guys scared of commitment?

I started out with my exboyfriend as friends, then our relationship turned to love. He even proposed but because I knew that my parents won't agree, I refused. When I knew I couldn't live without him, I accepted. When I said "yes", he said he wanted to tell me something about him which I don't know but I should give him time for him to think about the words. That evening I got a phone call from his boss, who is my boss and liked me too, told me that my boyfriend had someone pregnant. When I confronted him with the truth, I advised him to go back to her for the sake of the baby. He told me it was a one night thing, but I still insisted. He loved me and I loved him. His problem was his unborn baby, and mine was my parents who l refuse to let us marry for cross-cultural issues. Eventhough I knew about his problem, I kept going with the relationship. He did not want to hurt me he left me for a month hoping that I would forget him. During that time I went crazy and I returned to my job where he works just to be next to him. He used to sing to me at work, we did not meet again outside work. I felt depressed, listened to love songs, took sleeping pills. He decided to follow my advise and get married to the other woman, and I decided to get myself deported so I won't live in the same country where he lives. So I signed a paper that led for me to come back to my country and get engaged. I've been here for five months, haven't seen my ex for nine months. I still call him, he sings for me and I continue to love him. I told him I was getting married in the summer, he said he wanted to come to my country and attend my wedding. (ofcouse I said it is tough for me to see him infront of me while I am marrying some one else) The fact is that he wants to continue to be my friend and I do too. The problem is I love him too much...After I talk to him, I feel happy for couple of days then I would want to call him again...but I don't. Give me advise please!

I started out with my exboyfriend as friends, then our relationship turned to love. He even proposed but because I knew that my parents won't agree, I refused. When I knew I couldn't live without him, I accepted. When I said "yes", he said he wanted to tell me something about him which I don't know but I should give him time for him to think about the words. That evening I got a phone call from his boss, who is my boss and liked me too, told me that my boyfriend had someone pregnant. When I confronted him with the truth, I advised him to go back to her for the sake of the baby. He told me it was a one night thing, but I still insisted. He loved me and I loved him. His problem was his unborn baby, and mine was my parents who l refuse to let us marry for cross-cultural issues. Eventhough I knew about his problem, I kept going with the relationship. He did not want to hurt me he left me for a month hoping that I would forget him. During that time I went crazy and I returned to my job where he works just to be next to him. He used to sing to me at work, we did not meet again outside work. I felt depressed, listened to love songs, took sleeping pills. He decided to follow my advise and get married to the other woman, and I decided to get myself deported so I won't live in the same country where he lives. So I signed a paper that led for me to come back to my country and get engaged. I've been here for five months, haven't seen my ex for nine months. I still call him, he sings for me and I continue to love him. I told him I was getting married in the summer, he said he wanted to come to my country and attend my wedding. (ofcouse I said it is tough for me to see him infront of me while I am marrying some one else) The fact is that he wants to continue to be my friend and I do too. He sends me pictures of his son, and I'll send him picture of me as a bride. Some love stories never end. What do you think about my story?