nick66

Well, we were divorced in December of 2013 I believe, but still lived together until April of 2014. We have four kids, and we had no problem living together. She thought that she was unhappy, but realized that she had it pretty well according to her. She asked if we could spend the Labor Day weekend together, so I agreed. She moved back in December of 2014 and we went from there. She was back in love pretty quickly, and stated that she loved me all the time. I needed time, and it took me a few months to say it back. She was fine with that. We were married again in March of 2015. Things are great, and she says she loves me now more than she ever has.

I have posted here before, mainly in the Relationship with X thread, and somewhere in this thread a few years back. Short story, my wife and I were married for 16 years, divorced for a year, and have been remarried now for 2 years. Everything is great and we couldn't be happier!

jon21, she's 18, she's still a immature woman at this point in her life. Why would you want her if she's sleeping with other guys? Is this the type of woman you'd want to have a child with? At your ages, having kids should be the last thing you should be worrying about. She's coming back to you because she knows she can, and you willingly put up with it. Move on from her, you still have way too much living to do.

Thanks mbee. I must say that there's still work to do, but the effort she's making is awesome. I have my story in the "Relationship with X" thread. It's actually at the end and still ongoing.

My wife and I will be celebrating our 15th wedding anniversary after coming within a week of our divorce being final.

Happy ending for me, my wife wants to save our marriage so now I will tell her my thoughts directly. I know what it's like to hurt and hurt badly. I've been through six months of hell, but God has brought my wife back to me. Stay positive everyone, I know at times it's difficult to do so.

I just spent the last 4 days at the house with the kids, now you ask me to stay through next Sunday. Is there something to this? You keep telling me you miss me. Are you using me? Are you using me to satisfy you? It's all confusing.

What does forever mean to you?

Well, after 15 years of marriage, last night was my first night after moving out. Is being on your own worth throwing away 15 years and three kids over? You didn't make yourself happy, so instead you blamed me for it. Although we still get along great, I'm not really sure if I want to be your friend anymore. All those cards and letters you gave me over the years were lies apparently. You said you meant them at the time. Tell me, what does forever mean to you? Know this, I will never take you back. I won't be there if you decide you made a mistake. You gave up on me, and for that there is no going back for me. I don't resent you, I don't hate you, but you're no longer someone I will take care of. I will live my life for God, the kids, and me. You have fallen off that list. I do hope you're happy in life though, as I would never want you to suffer or struggle. I thought you were my soul mate, my destiny in life, but I was wrong. Have a good life.