foolishpleasure8

My boyfriend and I, of almost 2 years broke up about 4 weeks ago. We've talked occasionaly since the break up. Except..this past week we've been talking and hanging out non stop. He works during the day but then as soon as he gets off hes right here with me. Things were kinda weird at first but then it was like we started right where we left off a month ago. During our time apart we fooled around with other people. It wasn't the same. When i was with the other guy i just imagined it was my ex. My ex and i talked about it and he said that the girl he was fooling around with he had called her by my name a couple times. Both of the people we have messed around with live a good distance away so its not like we can just run into them at the closest store. Im very confused because the other day when my ex and myself were have sex i said " Im in love with you " and he just said " Even after the other guy you met? " and that was it. We just kept going. I'm beginning to feel used. Its like everytime we hang out we have such a great time but sex is always involved. I dont know what he wants ? He has a very hard time expressing his feelings for me. Everytime i start talking about us he shuts out and says he has to go. Yes our relationship wasn't perfect but I'd be willing to start over with him. He says he just wants to take things slow and continue to be friends.?. Should i just be the one to end everything or just continue to be friends .?. Am i being taken advantage of?

Sorry sweetie the one thing I've learned from past experiences is that you can't change people. If you keep trying to change her your only going to change yourself. Talk to her about your problems, dont push her away and leave her confused. Its probably not the best thing to do. She probably knows you better than you know yourself..just remember everything you two have shared together weather it be good or bad. You were friends for a reason!! I'm sure there are things about you that bug her too!!

You definitly need to just go for it. She seems like she was into you and she would probably be more than happy to go out to dinner. You would regret it if you didn't at least call her again! Good luck!

My boyfriend for over a year recently broke things off. Its kinda weird how it happened. Senior Week was in 2 days and for some reason everything i said wasn't what he wanted to hear. He pretty much picked a fight with me just so he wouldn't have a gf for Senior week. Which is what i think. Hes been at the ocean for over a week now and everytime i try to talk to him its like everything i say goes in one ear and out the other. He's only called me twice in the course of a week. Each time we talk its for a couple mins. He tells me that he wants to talk and work things out when he gets back but what am i supposed to do in the mean time? I am so in love with this guy its really unreal. One of his close friends has been trying to get with me ever since the break up. I tried to tell him and he flipped out. He thought i wanted to be with this other guy. He said he cared and he didn't want me to be with anyone else. But why would he break up with me ? I care a lot about him and i just want everything to be back to the way it was. Im really confused about the whole situation, i know deep down he really cares about me but how come ever since hes been at the beach he's been a completely different person? I feel like i dont even know him anymore.. I've tried and tried to make things better but it doesnt seem like he wants to while hes at the beach. Should i just wait for him to get back or just go separate ways and forget about him? Please help me understand him. Thanks

So many relationships go through this exact situation.Keep writing ..Its Great!! I love it

I've been dating this guy for about 9months.Things have been pretty serious and i thought we were really in love.Until about 2 months ago I met this really great guy, who i absolutly adore. Which causes two problems, i have a boyfriend and he also has a girlfriend. I would say hes probably been with her for about 3 months now. She really treats him like crap and he doesnt really have 2 many feelings for her but feels connected to her because he's really close with her family. My boyfriend and I have had problems, such as fighting non stop. Sometimes it gets to the point where i can't take it anymore. When the fling started with this other guy he had invited me over for a movie.Of course being completely head over heals i said yes. And ended up cheating on the man im supposed to be in love with. For the past 2 months me we still keep in contact and have also seen each other more. My feelings changed after the whole cheating situation. I dont believe in cheating and dont agree in any way thats its right. But for some reason this other man has completely stole my heart away. Im stuck. I know my boyfriend now loves me but for some reason i think i could have soo much more with this other guy. Who would you chose the one who loves you or the one you love??

You have to understand that you hang out with guys that make him jealous too.He just might not let it get to him as much as its gets to you.Guys have a way of hiding feelings. Most likely you wouldnt like it if he told you to stop hanging out with some of your friends. You should respect him enough that he's doing the right thing when hes not with you! Good Luck- foolishpleasure8

Your ex is Jealous.You could try talking to him about what hes doing.By him going out with a girl you dont like and he probably knows you dont like her hes trying to get back at you.Theres not much you can do about it.He proabably doesnt even like the girl tho. You shouldnt even be worried about him though, it sounds like you already have a great guy and im sure hes worth it.Get your ex out of your life for good!! Good Luck- Foolishpleasure8

Compared to your high school sweetie your new girlfriend isnt much. Comparing old relationships to new ones isnt always good, you dont want to compare every girl you go out with to your last. That would give both negatives and positives.But in this case if your not happy you should confront her. Tell her everything your feeling deep inside.If she has some smart comment about your feelings then she really doesnt care about you. You shouldnt stay in this relationship if you arent happy. I am sure there are tons of girls out there that would be intrested in you and its time you go out and find one that actually cares about you!!Good luck

I've known this guy for a couple months now.We are both on the swim team at our school. Since we have both joined the team we have became good friends and we talk a lot.He's such a great person to me and i love him to death. He recently told me that he liked me and i told him i liked him as well.Which i've like him for awhile now. Nothiing really more was said after that. I had been waiting for him to ask me for a while now but nothing has changed. I've thought about asking him out but i am afraid that i will get rejected considering he is 4 years older than me. I know for sure that he likes me now but why hasnt he asked me out? And when's the time when i say enough is enough and just ask him out myself.If he says no what should i do from there?