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Try to move on there. I had a similar situation as I was going to medical school with my ex. Tried very hard to "be friends". You'll only hurt yourself more like that. Move on, be mad at him, he doesn't deserve your friendship, so don't give it to him. He's the one that broke your heart, so you need to do what's right for you. And trying to be friends when you're still hung up on him is not what is right for you, trust me. You need to move on get over these feelings, and then you'll find that you won't much care whether you're friends or not. good luck

I had to make a similar decision lately. It was my first true love I would say, I tried to stay friends for the longest time, but finally decided that it was the best just to move on. I think it depends on two things 1) How strongly do you feel for him, and how much is this affecting your life 2) what does his friendship truly mean to you. 1) For me it became an overwhelming thing for me, I too thought it was going well, but then when the feelings started to come back and I thought about it all the time, was keeping me from being happy. and for me the importance of me being happy was more important than 2) Our friendship. In my case we were good friends Iguess, really like talking to each other, but I don't think we were true friends, there for each other and such, so for me I don't think I was losing a truly special friendshp by moving on. So I think you have to balance those two things, realize that you're not going to ever be back with him as a girlfriend, and truly think about how much this is affecting your life and how much your friendship really means to you when you take away your feelings from him. My advice is to kind of cut your losses. I've gotten over other girls before, but never had to see them again, this has been over a year already and when I think about her it's still like it was yesterday. It's no way to live, for me at least I had to do it to move on and be happy