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  1. thanks i was 20 at the time i'm 29 now. yeah i keep her close even though i'm married now
  2. yeah i found that there's a lot of ways around that age restrictions thing on dating apps. its statutory rape, i dont know the specifics tho but would it still be the case if i was deceived for 8 months? and her grand mom and grand dad, do know me and we got along well but they passed away a few years ago too. and her dad was a drug addict and is in rehab multiple times and her mom dont know me at all.
  3. you should live in my country, a 30 year old can look like a 18 year old. she was big in stature about as tall as me probably taller and i never suspected it. my current wife is the same age as me which is 29 and people say she looks 16 or around that age
  4. ok so this happened about 8 years ago. after a brutal breakup with my ex for 2 years i was depressed, during 2011 i got addicted to a few dating apps, my purpose was just hooking up to burry my depression and maybe find a proper girl. suddenly i found JD on her profile there was a phone number and a few of her details, on her profile said "age:22" and she looked the part too. After a week's worth of chatting we finally agreed to meet at my house and hook up. We got along well with shared interest and all, and a few days later we hit it again. we werent anything exclusive but we had
  5. Thanks everyone reading the comments makes me feel that i'm not alone and this is all normal. it somewhat helps
  6. i do that every night, i make sure she feel safe.
  7. Hi everyone. just seeking some help, im a guy and i just got my GF pregnant, we're both really happy about there's really not much or a problem except that i feel sorry that for my girl puking all the time and feeling nauseated and just over all weak. im not sure what my role is here im just doing all that i can but still feels like i could be doing more.
  8. Hi everyone, hope everyone is safe during these times. to start off, i know i should see a doctor with this, but there's nothing open at the moment, 2 of the nearest clinics near me are closed and its a about a mile or two walk to the next one, with no car and no commuting services in my area due to COVID, im stuck. about a month ago i had a severe neck pain, it was so bad that i couldn't move my upper right body, even my right arm, moving it felt like hell. I was bed ridden for a bout a week and a half before it started to show signs of healing. shortly after i felt like my right arm w
  9. Thanks! yea i've since calmed down and thought about it. she sleeps in my house because she's not cool with her family, if she aint sleeping in my place she's sleeping at her female best friend's place. funny thing is she lives 3 blocks from me. anyways i know what to do now, i think im just gonna give some space/bounderies, i feel like a looser because im acting like a looser around her. Im the nice guy who finish last because i cant get a grip. but yeah today was a wake up call.
  10. Holy ! man you hit it, you're right, i think i am spoiling her too much, i just realized that im becoming the "nice guy who finish last" i've probably realised this a while ago but you're right. I know the smart thing is to move on from her and just find a better partner in life. I also just realise why now i feel like a looser, its because im acting like a looser with her. i cant say no!
  11. so i got this best friend who's a little promiscuous, she spends a lot of time with me in my house and she even sleeps here almost everyday sharing the same bed ( because i only got 1 bedroom and there's no other place for her to sleep in). she's usually open about her sexuality to me and so am i. its jsut that recently i feel a lot of sexual attraction towards her, I think its because i spend a lot of time with her and we're open about talking about sex. HOWEVER she made it clear to me that im in the "big brother" zone. which makes it hard for me to make a move. Sex isnt a problem for
  12. Wow thanks to everyone, that was really encouraging! i think i just need to go by how i look and get a tape measure instead of relying on a scale. im still keeping at it, i just weigh in 140lb yesterday at 16.8% BF, but thanks to these afvice i no longer care about that, i'll just go by how i look now and maybe a tshirt or two ;)
  13. Alright hi everyone, just asking for some fitness advice to anyone who's and expert or maybe had the same experience or know what to do for years i've taken interest in fitness, but just about 8 months ago i decided to take my fitness seriously, and for that time i dedicated myself to a proper diet, and workout routine, it wasn't easy at all. but i am proud of what i have achieved. last December i was at 24% body fat at 50kg (skinny fat i know the sacle is weird) and 2 months ago i was at my leanest, I measured at 66kg at 12% body fat, had abs and all. im just 5'6 BTW. However the prob
  14. Ok so recently i've been spending a lot of time with my Girl Best friend, she sleeps in my house almost everyday because she dosent really have a home now (long story). anyways i've had some history with her i've known her for 10 years now, and that i think im starting to feel some sexual attraction towards her. cant quite put my feelings on it yet but im pretty sure i want to do it with her. Im not sexless by any means, its just that i cant make a move or i dont know how to make a move or even if i should make a move. i dont hang out with my friends anymore usually i hang out with my c
  15. Hi everyone, been a while since my last post. anyways its been a year or so since my last relationship ended terribly. in that year i've been busy just building my self up physically and financially. been hitting the gym 5 times a week and been improving my business for more financial gains. at the moment i've got everything that i could want and if i dont i could just buy it. However the reason why i did all the things i did was because i want to build a future for my family. but now i realise that its so hard to fall in love to even start a family. and im in the verge of giving up. in
  16. Thanks that actually makes sense. I am trying to improve myself after all to be able to attract the woman that i like. it is however getting really depressing at times.
  17. yeah women are interested, but for some reason i think i just give up way too soon. i dont really know, im putting some effort into it though. i am 27, yeah i think you're right about dating is getting harder when you try too hard.
  18. Good day everyone. Ok to start of, after being single for 7 months i've been focusing all my time and energy into building my business, which right now is somewhat thriving, which is more than i can say about it really, as well as physical fitness and just perusing self improvement, i've learned a new language a new instrument etc... recently i've started dating again, however i am not having any luck. whats weird is before i had money and a relatively good body i could really date like 3-4 girls in a week, not gonna hide it or not gonna say im proud if it, but when i was a lot younger a
  19. yeah i got a message from her mom, her dad likes me quite a lot (oddly enough) its her step mom who's adamantly against me and 3 of her brothers of course. and our relationship was a secret because of this. the message was to keep away and that they threaten me in some whay in that letter. actually we were only official for 3 weeks but we've been dating for 3 months.
  20. Hi guys, recentyl my GF broke up with me after only 3 weeks in the relationship, it wasnt anyone's fault, its just that she has a strict traditional parents, she's 19 and her parents doesnt like her snooping around with any boyfriends, so they locked her away from me, she's the youngest and the only girl in the family so its quite difficult to keep in touch, appart from my little sister whom i told once to sneak food into her classroom. the thing is its been 2 weeks now, and i dont know if i should persue this relationship. should i send her another letter perhaps, just to let her know t
  21. im going crazy over these emotions i haven't felt for a very long time, i think im in love with someone, no! i know im in love with this girl, Lucky for me the girl openly admits to like me too. But for legitimate reasons she cant be with me YET! at least thats what she said, reason being she just got out of an abusive 4 month relationship with a friend of mine whom i thought was cool. he was her 1st BF. all that sounds good and all we've been officially dating for 2 weeks now, but for me, who's experience how manipulative girls can be, and admittedly so that i too am a player of some sor
  22. Hi guys, just need your advice on this one. So ive been chatting and seeing this girl, and we seem to vibe really well, she's a artive/design student on a university nearby my place. I didnt really think of her romantically untill recently, when i decided to make a move and see if she bites, i secretly gave her a gift shes been nagging about for a Loooong time, a simple drawing book. i snuck it in her bag along with a simple motivational non romantic letter. Im a Concept Designer by profession so we really jived in that department too. ever since that day shes been really sweet, surprisi
  23. i suppose im still hoping she comes to her senses. but she's also the kind that probably would want to move on. I dont know, i herd from her Best friend, that the day i told her i had to say goodbye she came running down to her place and cried all night. might be pointless but im still hopeful.
  24. thanks, i suppose youre right, cuddling is sorta like a sexual thing or a romantic think for that. i dont have any regret on doing what i did, its just that i feel so alone, I got no one to talk to. yeah ive checked up on it and dr said i just need more excersice and amongst a few other things like eating healthy, im not fat im actually quite fit. I just stopped going to the gym in the past 3 months and my insomnia is coming back. nothing major really.
  25. Actually the cuddling bit is for me, i have insomnia i can go on for days without sleep its horrible, for some reason having someone to hug makes me sleep. embarrassing i know.
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