jenmay

I could just scream. My ex wants to call me, but he doesn't want to see me, and he was the one who broke my heart. I just don't get it! I am the victim here and he is playing like he is. We decided to go to a movie tonight and then he calls and cancels. I want to give up on him, but something is making me stay in limbo, any suggestions?

Help...My ex-boyfriend wants to call me every week, but he doesn't want to hang out. I asked him why and he said it is too painful to see me. Get this he was the one who dumped me! I told him that going out would be uncomfortable for me too, but I am willing to take that chance. So we are going out Thursday, if he doesn't call and cancel. Why would my ex call me all the time after throwing our three and a half year relationship away, and then not want to see me? He isn't dating anyone and I feel that he is trying to keep me hanging in case another opportunity doesn't come along. And get this we have been broken since May. Need some insight into the male psychi, what his motives, and thoughts may be.

You can try again, and explain to her the situation, but if she doens't give you another chance than it is her loss. I wish you the best!

Try sending her flowers...I am not going to guarantee that it will work, but hey it couldn't hurt. I wish you the best of luck!!!!!!!!

My ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for nine months, he did the breaking up. He called me alot right after and finally I told him that he couldn't call anymore. A month or two later his friend told me he wanted to call me, and I gave in and said yes. Now he calls me every week. Yet we haven't seen eachother, except for a couple of run ins on the street and at a club. Finally I asked him why we haven't gone out, and he said that he wanted it to be my call. I have been away on vacation and he said when I return he'll call and we'll plan something. Should I do it or should I prevent my heart from hurting again and ask him to stay away. Just a little history we were together for over three years and also lived together for a year. We broke up because he wanted to date other people and thought that i had become needy. Whether this is true or not I don't know.