I am a 34 year old woman who's best friend (a man) has a girlfriend that has issues with me. I have been friends with this man for 20 years, and she has dated him for a year, but still feels insecure. The kicker here is that I actually was the one that set them up and I have boyfriend as well. My friend and I often talk, but see each other probably once a week at the most, even though he lives down the street from me. She has become so insecure about the situation, contrary to his reassuring her, as well as myself. She is spiteful and hateful toward him regarding my friendship, blowing things out of proportion, and rude to me as well. I have been her friend long before I introduced the two of them. She has treated me terribly and I am afraid I can no longer consider her a friend, since she doesn't trust me. I am however concerned about my best friend. I am his closest and pretty much only friend...so I am afraid she will isolate him. I feel like calling her and telling her to pull her head out (so to speak)....what should I do.
