johnnytea1

well just start to talk to them about whatever you know you have in common. lets say you have a class together or you play the same sport, those things are easy to talk about. just make sure you have some questions to ask her about whatever subject you choose so you dont have any awkward silences. i dont think it would be wise to ask them what thier favorite color is or something like that because it doesnt lead anywhere, theres nothing to branch off of your favorite color. choose something to talk about that you both have in common and that you think will lead to another subject possibly. maybe the first few times all you will talk about is the class you share but as time goes on you will talk about more things you have in common.

well i live in chicago and i have to tell you it is a very good city. it is one of the largest in the nation and if you like big cities then look at this one! it is right on lake michigan and so in the summer you can go swimming at the citys many beaches. we do have all four seasons, they are all very distint, in the winter it gets cold and snows, and in the summer it gets fairly hot but its not killer hot like texas or arizona. If you like varying climate then this is a great place to live. There are many different nationalities here and just outside the city about 30 mins away one of the largest malls/shopping areas. so if you are into shopping then not only does chicago have great shopping but so do the suburbs. The weather is good, for the most part, the food is great, and the people are wonderful. If you want a big city to live in then look into Chicago, or if you would rather live in suburbs, we got lots of those too!

from what uve said, i think itd be pretty safe to say she does. what did she say on the candy cane message? anything that would hint that she does like u? what does she do when she flirts with you? if shes always trying to be close to you or touch you then id say thats a sure sign. i would say on your other problem on what you would do if she does ask you out, i would gently deny her but reassure her that nothing wil change between you two. for the girl that you like, wait a little bit until things die down some with your friend that likes you. going out with the other girl too soon after your friend has expressed her feelings may upset your friend. i had a friend in the similar situation and she felt horrible whne he started to date this other girl. just be patient until u feel things have died down and then make your move. maybe u would even ask your friend if she wouldnt feel weird about u going out with soemone. but thats your choice. good luck

well im starting to get facial hair on my face and im not quite sure what to do. i shave and it by the next day i can feel it on my face again. its not that noticeable, only when left untouched. i want to do something with it eventually but im wondering when i should. should i wait for it to come in more fully? or should i do what i want to do now? my dad and brother both have facial hair that once they shave in the morning it starts to be visible by night so i would think i would be on that same track. i just wanted to know others opinions on when or what to do with facial hair. thanks

i would say that if i were in your position, i would just keep yer relationship where its at for now, wait until the new guy goes away. although u might feel bad now in the long run i think ull have a better shot at her. when the other guy leaves, it will be more noticeable of your love for her because you have stuck with her the whole time. she might be hurt after her relationship with the other man is over and u can come in and comfort her, be there for her. shell notice and then, i believe, u will have a better shot at her. dont make her choose between two guys right now. just be patient and let things settle and choose yer time to act, if u do, wisely. those are my two bits. good luck

i think that everyone has these problems. as long as you are in the same place for an extended period of time, everythign gets old and boring because youve done it all so many times. im sure you in utah get sick of hiking sometimes. i sure as hell get sick of walking around the mall or going bowling, or movies. i liked the idea that Kodos said, i think that was a good idea. ive showed her football and explained the rules to her, she acutally likes it now but it took a little getting used to, thanks for all of your ideas and if anyone else has anything dont be shy, i think we could all use some help

i dont really know what is going on. i try to be the best friend that i can be but how come some people wont open up to me. my best friend (im a guy and shes a girl by the way) is having some problems and every time i ask whats bothering her or what not, i get no where, why? i feel as if shes my friend but im not her friend, shes just continuing to talk to me to not make me feel bad or to not hurt me. i want to say this to her but i think it will just make things worse. what am i doing wrong? im not forcing her to say anything, i want to help her but she wont let me. i want to know why. i want to feel like i mean something, right now i feel like if i just disapperead for a week she wouldnt even notice. it hurts. i dont really know whats going on i just want to be able to help but she wont let me. why do i feel this way? what can i do to feel good? or feel needed? ughh it all sucks

yeah it does help, your ideas were great, does anyone know of anything else, maybe a little on the cheaper side? they dont have to be but id like to see what else others can think of, thanks again, both of you

thanks for the ideas, most of them weve already done although, we live near chicago and next to the biggest mall in the usa (woodfield mall) (yes thats right, bigger than mall of america, they cheat, they have roller coasters, but we have the most retail space). but anyways weve done the ice skating thing, theres a place downtown chicago we went to, maybe well goto a zoo and do that thing with the ice sculputers. i do feel that we have done everything under teh justification of friends, i dont really want anything else than friends cause i dont want to ruin what we have so keeping where it is wont mess things up. anyways thanks for the tips, anyone else got anything else?

me and my friend are best friends and of course im a guy and shes a girl so that stirs crap up but hey just ignore em all. it doesnt matter. everyone thought that we were doing all sorts of shit together that normal friends dont do, like bf gf stuff if u know what i mean but its all false, i found it all funny. we also learned that after we told people that we werent going out or anything they were placing bets on when we were going to start, that was crazy but whatever, eventually it all dies down and its all good, dont let em get to u, just ignore em

well me and my friend who is a girl and im a guy hang out alot and were not dating or nothing, just good friends. anyways... everytime we hang out we never have anythign to do and we are bored. what are things to do for like 16 year olds. we have transportation and wahtnot but theres just like nothing to do anymore, weve done bowling and movies to the max and eating food is getting old, so what are somethings that we can do. im afraid that if we hang out more and not do anything shell lose interest in me and move onto other friends and stuff. and that would be hte worst thing, i want to be fun, i want her to look forward to the time we spend together but honestly i dont think she is, and i hate taht, please help me. please, thanks

i personally think that it doesnt matter what your friend looks like, even if she is gaining some weight. she prolly knows that gaining weight isnt good for her modling career but u dont need to reinforce that to her. just let her be and be her friend not because of her modling job or whatever just be her friend because of her.