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Doesn't sound like you're incompatable. Is there any position that you enjoy where watching is good for both of you? Like in front of a mirror? Men like to watch, there's something very erotic about it and we get to know you better. Remember that we are the biggest consumers of erotic magazines and porn. Tells you something. And next time you give him head, see how long it takes before he actually cums, then you'll have a gauge. Take him close and remember to make sure you're stimulated too. 8)

Athena, Brava! Great insight. That will work on us every time and show us what you enjoy! We're a little bit intimidated to suggest things because women, in general, will never let us know exactly where and what. And we're convinced you all could never be as deviant (better word?)as we believe ourselves to be.

Mar! That's great advice! That's what I was saying, show us. It's stimulating and we feel so much better about ourselves when were confident in what we're doing and seeing our woman's pleasure.

Give him a position that will enhance his view of everything, we can't take that very long!

SHOW him! Read the other post I left you. It makes sense right?

You girls have the answers, really! Think about what guys buy in magazines. Think about what we love to see, and what we want to watch you do. We're pretty stupid about a womans body. Show us! That alone will beef up our confidence, just knowing where everything is and knowing that you all are doing and fantasizing about the same things.

Hi Sexlesssassy, Remember, we love you all in sexy underware, but if it's available all the time it becomes "part of his day", Ho Hum. If your body is always on display and it's accessible too, why feel "hunger"? You go girl!! RD 8) 8) 8)

Sexylassie, I once had a lady that thought because we were intimate that she could do anything she needed to do in front of me. She would go to the bathroom, change her "pads", whatever. She was very upset that I didn't find some eroticism in those things. Well no, not when it's there always ! There a mistery about a woman. If we ask her to let us watch something we never get to see than it becomes a very intimate and erotic moment. Point is, are you very open with your personal things with him? If so it may take that "mistery" about you that he wanted to explore when you first met. RD

Inastate is right. This guy's a jerk. The only thing jerks understand are their OWN needs. As hard as it may be, push ahead, let him see it's only a working relationship and try to find someone nice and considerate and loving for just you. Breeziness and "going on" everyday will cause him to spin and he will try again. Don't let him in. Get what you deserve!

Yeah, that's like a woman at her most , well, just woman. Women should remember that men are their biggest admirers. If you go into a store you'll see rows of magazines that show men all we love about you. That's from your head to your toes, and all that's beautiful and incredibly desirable about you. I've never had a woman show me the same in our private moments and not responded fervently. This also brings out these wonderful scents a woman has. We're suckers for you and will continue to be. That's the way we're made. I'm glad you liked the details. It made me remember too. And that's life. Go get him!

I love a girls skin! Her shoulders, neck and that very tender skin between her panties and her thigh. There's a fragrance there that's unresistable. When my girl shows me that and waits for me to nuzzle it with my lips and then pulls her panties to the side and she's already wet.....that is so f_____ cool! From that point on she owns me.

You want him to react to you? Find a good guy that will at least give the impression that he has more going for him than your husband. Make sure your husband knows about it. Make sure there won't be any trouble before you make sure he sees you with this guy. We go NUTS and our hearts break when that happens to us! It'll be around that time that you may come to one of two conclusions. #1-You really would rather get it "overwith" now than go through this again later. #2-He'll show you even more what kind of jerk he is and you'll run from him very fast! Anyway you go, you'll win, trust me.

So-So, It's OKAY! Remember to have a little knowledge of all the participants (STD"S?) Also, if you can have at least one friend, male or female, there to aide any overzealousness it would be wise. Men, by nature, are strongly attracted to the sight and scent of a naked woman. It's our nature to complete the act. Be careful, aware and intense. In other words, ENJOY!! 8) [/i]