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Thank you both of you, i think that i'm gonna give her a call soon. thanks i have some things to thing about now, i'm not obsessed with her but i do have stong feelings for her. I won't express these right away and i will definitely start at the bottom with a friendship and work my way up. thanks so much both of you. I have a lot more advice and guidance now that you both took some time to answer my post. THANKS!

alright, i think that you should actually call him. don't email him or im him, actually pick up the phone and call him. it will make you feel better. Although expect that he may or may not still have feelings for you. if he doesn't, then suggest you stay friends. keep in contact. although don't call him everyday, maybe he is just scared to contact you, so take some of the inicitave here and help him out by calling him. if he is busy ask when you can get in touch again. just do what you think is best. if you want to call him, do so, if you want to wait then wait. just let yourself tell you what to do.

well, you certainly are not the only people to have a large age gap between the two of you. i knew a couple that had a thirteen year age gap. they had a great relasionship and i'm sure they still do as i have not seen them in a few years. in your case, if you really like him then go for it, make it work if you have to. remember tho if things take a turn for the worst then you are still young and have alot more opportunities for the worst. i can understand how you are confused tho. don't think to much into it. if you like him do something about it, don't worry about your age. there is nothing wrong with dating someone older then you as long as they love you back.

okay, well i'm not sure why exactly you are asking but i dunno, i think this person probably never had a strong communication to anyone about how they feel about themselves. he/she seems very confused with him/herself and i think that he/she should probably get in contact with someone close and explain why they are confused. this person probably is very outgoing but is shy and this causes that conflict of interest i suppose because this person is constantly trying to be something they aren't and doesn't realize most likely who they really are. instead of copying everyone else with the actions they take maybe they should see the strongpoints of themselves and expand on it. also this person had probably not found something that they are really good at and this can cause problems. give lots of praise to this person and make sure that they communicate how they feel about everything to someone. you will see a great change in the person if you do.

Okay heres the deal. I've known this girl for a few months now although we never have really been conversational with each other. Or rather had a real conversation together until just recently. Alright so i can't stop thinking about her. I used to be interested in her friend but that died down and know all i need is her. all i can think about is her and i can think of something and somehow link it back to her. So i know telling her all this might be scary for her although i'm not sure as we do know each other. I'm not sure if i have been receving signs from her or if she acts this way. Recently she came into my work with some friends and she told me that she specifically came in to see me. I have managed to get her number out of the phone book. and i want to call her. but i'm not sure how she would react to me calling her without her directly giving me her number. help me please. should i call her?