ok my girlfriend left me in febuary. she cleaned out my house took my son and well left me with 0. this hurt a lot and a lot of things have been said, although we have tried a few times to be a couple.
it just hasnt really worked out. but the last one was the last straw so to speak, we fell out and didnt have any relations for 2 mths then all of a sudden she iniated sex i of course being male and having had no sex in that time didnt hesitate. then she went cold and i "tried to talk about it" to no avail, she said dont read too much into it. i mean i felt like a girl ( no offence girls but men usually dun feel like this ). i felt used abused and a idiot i still got a lotta feelings for this girl, and to be honest i made all the moves after this , the cuddles the kisses the massages but to no avail it still didnt lead to anything. i dont want to come off the jerk here , sounding like i was only after sex, but i wasnt i only wanted some affection. anyway to get to the crux of the matter the final stab to the heart came when we hadnt spent any time alone since that fateful sex session ( a mth and a half) i asked her to see her alone she said yes at the weekend. Then she never phoned and when she did it was l8 at night and i knew she was gonna say i cant come over cause she just put son to bed. so i acted cold and told her ill see her when she brings him over. all i want to know is a female point of view is she saying to me i h8 u and i want to treat u like crap or is she saying i want to feel in control? either way i hate it as we nver had this when we were going out/living together.
