Morpheus_67

It looks like I hit a sensitive spot for some people. Well, I think we all can agree to that USA is the most money focused country in the world. If you don't have any money here you will not get anywhere. And I think that is sad because it creates things like this. I bet some of the young and beautiful girls are enjoying it, but just as you say many are not enjoying it. They are just in it because they are in need of money. Maybe they just lost their job, are poor students or whatever. Then old horny guys that cannot get laid the "normal" way found this opportunity to use their huge amount money (as fat ugly men often have here in the US) to make these cute needing women to blow them off or jump on them. I agree, it seems to be good money. But I'm sure after 5-10 years when these women still can find themselves on the Internet with a fat old penis in their mouth they will feel really bad. Maybe even their kids will find them there, which I guess all women would agree would be the worst situation for them. And by then they will probably regret that they fell for the greed of getting well paid for a blow job in their 20's. I can't help it, I have the feeling this is really sick. And as you say the industry is growing pretty fast, which also means the number of women that will end up in this situation while being out of money temporary will increase. By the way, I'm from Europe originally. Maybe you have a different and more open view of sex over here. I have even heard that it sometimes is perfectly OK for a girl to give her boyfriends friends a quick blowjob or even have sex with them. And if that is normal over here, I guess it makes it even easier to create an industry out of it. And also if things like this IS normal, then I think I still have the view of American women as just cheap meat. Love, romance and commitment seems to be a forgotten subject for them.

When surfing the Internet for sex you often get in to pages like "Mikes apartment", "MILF hunter", "The dirty old man", "Cum fiesta", "In the VIP", "Teens for cash". It might be naive of me, but it makes me wonder if these pages really are for real? I mean are American women that easy to get sex with just by showing them some dollar bills? And the strange thing is that the women in these pages often are VERY beautiful and pretty, but the act like hookers. Do women that look that good really have to make a living out of having sex with older horny guys? Where is your American society heading? Of course it turns me on, but the next day I see a pretty American woman I ask myself "I wonder if that woman ever been acting for an amateur sex web page." At least it kind of destroys all the beauty of "normal" all american women for me. Are you really that cheap?

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I read The Morrigan's article "So you want your ex back - tips, do's, and don'ts!" regarding "Getting Back Together" and I liked it a lot. The initial article is amazing and I actually think it might work. I will now start my way through it. I guess my problem is less than for others since I only dated my latest girlfriend for a couple of months. But I really fell in love with her, and when I got her message that she didn't want us to meet anymore it hurt me pretty bad. Maybe the time you've been toghether isn't that much of a difference if you have really strong feelings for the other person. Anyway, now to my problem and my questions... The thing is she broke up with me through a single mail. I tried to reach her the same day I got it, but got no respons at all. I guess she saw that it was me calling and didn't want to answer. Why, who knows? Personally I think it is always better to talk in person if you wanna break up with someone. I then wrote her a very long mail the day after, in which I told her what I really felt about her and how hurt I was that she had taken this step. To me it came as a flash from the blue. The date we had some days before was just fine, cute and nice. The thing is I haven't heard a word from her since that single "break up mail". She did not return my message on the phone, she didn't returned any answer on the mail. In her mail she wrote how much she really felt for me and that she would like to be able to keep the relationship with me, but since she'd been pretty bad hurt some months ago by her old boyfriend she was not ready for any relationship with me. She wanted to get past her lingering issues from her latest relationship. What makes a person act like this? What can be the reason she didn't even reply on my mail? How should I act? The thing is I actually think she have or at least by the time she broke up had feelings for me. Could the reason be that she's dating more than me and that the "past relationship" thing was just a cover? Could the reason be she's trying to get back together with her ex? I've been trying to date a lot of other women, but every time I start thinking of her. I guess I was more in love with her than I thought I was, and I'm still hoping she will change her mind about us. But first, how should I interpret the case that she isn't responding at all? I must have been worth more to her? The strange thing is also, as I mentioned above, that the latest date we had before the break up was really good, and I couldn't sense anything wrong going on at all. I noticed that she was holding back a bit, but I interpreted that as she was just taking it easy because she liked me and didn't want to rush. I told her I accepted that and that her holding back was no problem for me. Is it normal in the US that girl- or boyfriends is just ignoring the other part totally after a breakup? At least, this is the first time it happens to me. I am not from the US originally, and I mean dating cultures can be different. I still really love this woman! She's the sweetest and cutest thing that ever happened to me! And I actually still believe she wants to get back with me. But I can't get in touch with her, I don't want to pressure her and I really don't want to spoil it totally. Please advice!?