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Eye contact and confidence must not be confused. I am sure that you are confidident in many things, and whilst socialising you just want to be more outgoing possibly. Being happy will lead to confididence. Making eye contact is something that can be found to be very intimidating to the recipient. Try making the conversation. To practise getting used to chatting about something that you are confidident with (a hobby or sport!) Let us know how u get on!

well im no pro at this sorta thing, or never hope to become one.. however i can sort of relate to your situation. I wont bore u with the details, im not gay, bi or nething but just read on.. Clearly this fun relationship, which both of you enjoyed very much took place because at that point in time you were both ready for a relationship. Thats cool, so.. then something happened at ur partners end which made her not look differently upon you, but she had a different agenda. Is this person looking for a real relationship? was something missing? I believe you would not have posted this note if it was not for subconscious fact that you were found something within her soul that made u a different person whilst she was around you. I hope you look closely at yourself and ake any changes during this festive season that could change your life in abig way, but for the better i believe. I wish you the best of luck in your new adventure! Take care!

well thats nice, sounds like u are a holy godfather or sommit?? (the above post) But i do take your points and i do agree, ive cocked up on this one, but surely just playin around with other grls wont do nething 4 me either?? It may be a lil obsession but shes different, and i dont think im ready to get closure as u both put it. And please, i dont hav a comb over!! - THANKS!! i like my hair with all its blond highlights!! ahem!! jk. Please any further comments good or bad appreciated in this FESTIVE SEASON!! jingle jingle!! - Tom.

right here goes i hope someone can help.. For the last 2/3 months I have my eye (and more) on this girl. Im obsessed with her, shes amazing in every way to me! i know she has feelings for me.. and she knows how i feel (although i didnt tell her she heard it through som1 else!). she had a BF (long term) and dumped him just after we were getting close, but then before i had chance to make a move (not trying to rush things, she got back together with him. Then things went quiet, we didnt go ot etc.. and then she broke up with him again(so i was told) BUT then after a drunk night she started going out with the college tw**! I dont know whether shes still interested in me, and i find it hard to talk to her, although when we do talk theres this thng in both our eyes! - i cant get it off my mind!! PLEASE someone help!! - i lookforward to a reply! Merry Christmas!