Matter2134

Very much so.

Thank you this is what I felt as well. He did things to be shady and lied. His whole family unit is a mess but I’m the one with problems. lol. My family is solid and we are not drama

That is al in place friends and family have ceased communication with him and his family. So last night I’m in my car in the parking lot at my apartment and he pulls up and wants me to call his daughter because she is in a crisis. I politely said no and he anger got upset and said his daughter is mad at me now also because my family blocked her as well in Facebook. Im starting to think the whole family is all drama. Im not sure what more I can do besides blocking h I’m from all avenues and now he shows up to ask for my help lol.

Totally agree. I have tried to get him to see the issues but finally cut all ties with his family and friends but now he is angry

So the same man who walked out on me that and ended things is now trying to talk time. He emailed a letter saying that if I would fix my insecurities this would all be okay. He said I’m the root cause of all this and he even has the nerve to say I should get fixed as I will never be in a relationship if I’m like this. He takes no blame only that he had to leave because of my insecurities He also stated there wa red flags he ignored from the beginning and that he should have left then. *** I haven’t said one word to him in a week or not and woll not respond to him. He said I adore you love you and I could be with you if you fix yourself. This man has sent me pics of him and his ex and a friend sitting around a fire when I first met him and thought that was acceptable. He said he doesn’t love him a ex and I will see in years to come that he will never get back with her. Then asked me to go to counselling with me. Lol. I am starting to believe he is insane He even called my cousin who he is friends with and said I’m insecure and that although he loves me he can’t be with me. He was upset also I deleted his kids and friends of Facebook.

Agreed. He seems nice some days and then gets angry others. Crazy

They all said I caused all the drama since I came In the picture. It’s probably because the father never had anyone is his life for 8 years

Oh his kids are okay well his boy of 18 called me horrible names but that’s what he heard from the mother

At this point I do t know anymore and the last time he left I let him go. Then he hounded me with calls texts etc. guess he knew I was not taking him back. I won’t let him move in with me again he has moved back to his house. It’s all drama with the whole family and has been from day 1. I’m almost ready to say that’s it as my life is good with out all of this. I know I need to make a decision and he says I need to stop this immediately questioning about her motives as he doesn’t care

Hi kids are 18 and 23. They have been divorced 11 years He keeps saying they don’t talk anymore but I know that’s a lie because I have seen his messages to her and it’s still laughing about how she went to a restaurant and how they went when the kids were small. It bothers me and he says I need to let it go. He promised it would stop so I’m trusting his words but I don’t trust her as I know she will try something else

Agree on somethings but to say she needs to be in his life all the time because of two adult children is crazy. I’m sorry you feel that way but I have many friends that have husbands with ex wives and they are not in daily contact about how they are feeling etc or interfering with the new wife

So I have a fiancé and we are trying to move forward and plan a life together. Only huge problem has been his ex wife. She has done numerous things to upset me and he refuses to deal with her as he said she will round his adult kids against him. She has shown up at a few dinners uninvited while we are with his kids and talked only to him and about how they did things together. She is constantly texting or calling about nothing just to chat about her vacation. She is also engaged but since the very beginning she has basically told me they are best friends. Problem I have is she has now changed her name back to her married name on Facebook. I feel this is very manipulative but my fiancé says it’s no big deal Fiancé has never spoken up and I have been told that I’m causing drama. Not much more I can take and as soon as I try and address an issue he breaks the engagement need advice

Agreed and he moved all his clothes there is a few things here he needs to get I guess he didn’t have time last night I haven’t heard from him yet today but I’ll pack it up and drop of off

Yes moved out

Only going on what he said. He said I’m to blame for destroying us. But then said he needs to see if he is making a rash decision Didn’t want me to pack up the rest of his things said let’s talk tomorrow

Guess it’s my own fault. Should have stayed away from him

So last night he moved out of my plac he said he couldn’t do it anymore and blames me for everything background in this is he has an ex wife who he won’t set boundaries with. His phone is his obsession and the past few days it’s hiding it from me no taking it to bed etc. I saw a text from a coworker and looks like he is chatting with her. He said I accuse him often which is not true. He just jumped up last night after I asked him to please put his phone away and he said he is leaving and can’t take this anymore. I called a few times to say tell me the truth because I don’t believe this was random it was planned. He says it wasn’t one day saying he loves me next minute walking out. He said last night after he left that he is angry he loves me but for me to leave him alone. Then he says he can’t lose me so confusing. So today he wants to talk. ***

Well tonight was the last conversation with him. He told me in the past 2018 he slept with married women in his town. I asked if he knew thenuabands and he said yes. I said you have no morals and the he got upset because I was digging into his past. I asked how could you do such a thing and he said I was single and they came onto me. Plus I can keep a secret. Well he then said you can leave it you want. So I left

Okay so same guy but now seems to keep taking about me leaving him or breaking up. Driving me crazy and I told him so. Then he says I love you so this morning he sends this Have a good day at work, and stay out of trouble! It took me 10 years to find you…..don’t want to have a long term relationship (but I would with you if needed 😘) with you while you are on a rig 😂😂. What the hell is going on with this guy. Is he giving me hints on wanting to leave as I have repeatedly told him I’m not going anywhere. Then he will say he is not leaving me he wants to marry me. What do you guys think

He just texts I am so in love with you dawn I’m keeping my guard up this time

Maybe who knows. Saying he in in love with me doesn’t make sense if he wants out

Thanks for the advice makes me feel better. But also thinking he wants out and can’t tell Me