Rsix15

Relax. that's how i spend my weekends! lol, j/k.. nah, you should definatly stop this before it gets any worse. masturbation is good every now and then, but if you do it all day, everyday.. it becomes an unhealthy obsession. this can lead to anything from sex addiction, drug use (trying substances to enhance the feeling), and, at worst, prostitution: the idea of taking something that should be valued above all else and making profit from it (don't worry, this is years and years down the line. with the help of eNotalone, you'll nip it in the butt.). but the first two can creep up on you, so try to stay away from chat rooms and talking to people you don't know for awhile.. a girl your age (which, i dont know but i'm assuming late teens) should be worrying about boyfriends, and clothes and makeup and stuff: not about when the next time you'll be getting off will be. you're not abnormal or anything, probably just going through a rocky stage of puberty. relax, take it one day at a time, and remember you'll always have your friends to go to for advice. only ask your true, 7+ year friends since they will be able to counsel you the best as they've known you the longest.

Wow, this is a complicated one.. but I'll do my best. okay, first off.. I'm going to say yes, there is hope for the future. you two broke up based on a series of arguments. arguments, as funny as this sounds, are absolutely necessary for a stable relationship. without them, both sides are just playing along with each other, avoiding arguments at all costs. this is very unhealthy. you need to fight (not too often), and make up. its all about working out differences, a learning experience if you will about both sides' psyche. this helps with future plans, both short and long term. but back to the matter at hand.. your boyfriend is moving on (or trying to, at least). come on, he jumps into a relationship after two months, (probably alot less, since you just found out friday), brings her home to his parents and expects everything to be fine. your boyfriend is possibly repressing every feeling and emotion he's had about you and replacing it with this new girl. (face it, you don't get over a 1.5 year relationship in two months, and if you do you wouldn't be getting a new partner within that time).. in my 19 years on this earth i've learned a thing or two about b/f/g/f relationships. he wants this back, and he's doing it at your expense.. you need to call him, and tell him you know ya'll fight and have differences, but that you also know the best part of this is learning about each others conflicts and working them out. you can work it out.. you need to make the first move though. i'm sure he's in denial, and the more time that goes by of him not noticing this, the deeper in it he'll become and eventually, on both a conscious and subconscious level believe that this other girl is right for him. she is not right for him, you are.. and you need to have him realize this before it goes any further. (but dont come right out and say, we're meant to be together.. get creative, remind him of the little things you two laughed about, etc.). I'm sorry, that was kind of long and drawn out but the best of luck to both of you, I hope everything goes ok!

Well.. I agree with everyone on the concept that there is too little information to just say she's not interested; however, if a girl has feelings for someone.. well.. just put it this way, mom can wait a few minutes. lol. luckily, its gotta be too early for her to have any type of feelings.. which is a good thing, because this is where you make the first impression (you don't have to worry about that one anymore), establish communication, and build a friendship (not too strong if you want there to be a more intimate relationship). now.. you did kind of throw yourself out there, so there's no way around it, you must ask her to lunch the next time you see her (you always want to remain consistent with girls). dont be shy though, always confident because this will affect her response. if she says yes and ya'll hit it off you've successfully jumped ahead to the friendship thing and theres probably not much advice you'll need for that. if she says no, its alright.. just try to say hi every now and then, open the door for her, make small-talk, ask her about interests, hobbies, etc. if you get blown off at every attempt to gain her respect, friendship, just move on but don't give her dirty looks, hatemail, etc. there are lots of girls out there, and you'll find one who shares your interests and feels equally attracted

Ok, I'm new here.. so.. that having been said, here's what I think.. your sister probably has told her, just what you said that you're attracted to her and everything, and she might (I use this word strongly) just be doing that to kind of.. I dunno, mess with you, but in a good way. kind of boost your ego.. this happened to me alot when I was younger with friends of my sister. only thing is, I knew it was all in good fun (kind of dissappointing), so I never really took a risk with any of them. you, however, can do that and I urge you to, strongly. I mean, if you ask this girl I can almost guarantee she'll say yes, and when she does don't come on too strong.. I mean, flirt, but do this carefully.. watch her reactions, analyze them to make sure they're not jokingly put out there.. and come to a conclusion based on that. if she does respond to these in an equally-attracted manner, you're in the clear and asking her on future dates is definatly a good idea. if it's all fun and games, you know.. younger-annoying brother type stuff, lol, just let it go and remain good friends. maybe somewhere down the line it'll get serious.. but remember to be confident, open-minded,charming, funny, and not obviously horny. (or at least not too obvious.. lol)