My girlfriend of 6 months and I are what you would call a secretive relationship. None of her or my friends know about our relationship primarily because her friends hate me and would basically not approve of us being 2gether and probably terminate her friendship and they mean alot to her.
She means SO much to me. On every level I think I'm falling in love with her. Lately she seems withdrawn and not talking to me as much online or on the phone. ("She spends more time with her family" and "Shes a very busy girl") and this isnt very typical of our relationship because in the past we were excited to see each other every weekend etc. Lately my friend has taken a romantic interest in her and he chose to pursue her but i curbed this and revealed we were together but she doesnt know that I told him so thus, she thinks that he thinks that shes single. They seem to spend quite a bit of time together (ice skating, movies) and I feel as if I'm missing something here. I dont know whether to ditch the girl? Pursue her harder (phone more etc.)? If i confront him or her they stick to the "we dont like each other" story. Shes cheatd on me before but she was drunk although I found out and she didnt tell me. What should I do? Im falling more and more for her every day and losing her would kill me but if thats what you guys think..then its what must be done. Thanks for your time!
