huskypower

Well you have to read the first part of this story link removed Well here the update: She recently finished her relationship with the guy, so shes free. We have been talking about stuff and she told me: ''we should go to the movies sometime, we would laugh and have fun'' So, well about 2 days after, at school, she was in a room with a window, so i waved at her, then she made me a sign to go see her. We talked a bit she had a big smile. That night i called at her place, laked about training(we are on a sports team) and I wanted to know the days that there were laps at the pool(she works at the pool) Anyways after talking a bit I invited her to the movies. I said this: ''hey, i was wondering if you wanted to go to the movies saterday night? Well if you didnt plan.'' She said that she couldnt because her parents were leaving to Florida and it was the last day they were spending together, but she immidiatly offered to go at the pool do laps with me. So i said ya ill call you when i go. I wanted to know if you guys think that she just found that has an excuse not to go to the movies. Should i ask her again when i get a chance?

I just wanted to know if it was dumb to call a girl to ask her on a first date. The girl in question actually told me this: ''we should go see a movie sometime'', So im pretty sure she likes me(I hate beeign shy!!) Anyways just wanted to know if it was a good idea.

Thanks for the answers, but come on people. im more of you guys can help me on that one. I really need some other opinions. Oh and I wanted to know, well she is kind of popular at school and im not, do you think I should try to talk to her at school anyway?

There is this girl I really like, we are kind of friends, even if we never talk at school. I have been almost living with her for around 6 days(sports competition we are in the same team). Well while we where there we had alot of free time and I was almost always in her room. We talked about alot of things and laughed alot too. She has a boyfriend and I am perfecly aware of that, but it seems she likes me too. Here is what was goign on: Well we looked at each other in the eyes smiling almost all week, I made her laugh alot, she was sometimes touching my arm and legs, we sleeped(took naps in the same SMALL bed) together for a couple of hours(she asked me to), she also asked me to sleep all night in her room, which I didnt because she has a boyfriend and maybe my coach would of anoyed me. She also played with my hair and finally, I was just sitting in another friend's room and all of a sudden just just sat on me. I do not have alot of experience, but to me it seamed that she was really interested in me. Anyways I really like her, find her really beautiful and also like her personnality. Please answer fast, and tell me if I should talk about this with her.

k there is a girl a REALLY like and she is kind of my friend. We never talk at school but we are in the same sport team. Im in 10th grade and she is in 9th. 2 weeks ago she left her boyfriend but another guy asked her to go to the dance.(she is the kind of girl who always has a boyfriend) Last week at a training weekend, i was looking at her and she looked back smiling. 2 days ago we where driving in the coachs truck i sat besides her and told her seriously she was beautiful. She really is too. after that she didnt say anything but we were looking at each other in the eyes smiling. We did that about 4 times. Now i never dated anyone and i am very shy with girls. Should I ask her to the dance even if another guy already did? I dont want to break our friendship either. CAn you guys (or girls) give me tips to have the courage to ask her.