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  1. You're actually right on target. He's an extremely sensitive person in general. I think he overreacted but I did know how sensitive he is and didn't think about that.
  2. Thank you for sharing your experience Darlington. I really appreciate it and you've given me a lot to consider.
  3. Thank you so much Katrina for your kind, thoughtful, non judgemental and helpful response!
  4. Again that is your perception. 1 post on this site does not reveal the sum total of the relationship.
  5. I will figure out how I want to proceed. Thanks for your opinion.
  6. No, it's not quite like a celebrity crush that is one sided, but you're entitled to your opinion.
  7. Thank you for sharing. I think he's cool with how things are and I was but now I'm not. I have to communicate that and it's hard for me, but I have to do it.
  8. Awww thanks for sharing that story. It is possible to be in love in an LDR...it just sucks at the same time. I don't like to be vulnerable but I have to do a better job of expressing that if we don't see each other more often, this isn't going to work for me.
  9. Earlier in the thread I already stated that we need to talk about that and if it's not something he is willing to do then I will proceed from there.
  10. He's working on his doctorate so he won't be done until next year. He will not be relocating before then.
  11. I didn't say I want an engagement right now. We're not there. But given the infrequency of us meeting and the distance, I said that's not exactly leading to engagement.
  12. I have relatives who work for the sheriff's office so they've done some snooping of their own. Like I said, before the FB situation I didn't have any suspicions. As far as how often we see each other, that is a problem. We'll talk about it and if he's not willing to change the frequency then I will proceed from there.
  13. We've been speaking since Saturday. He expressed his view and I expressed mine. There was a situation in January where I posted about having a great start to the new year and spending time with an amazing person and he commented under that with details revealing that it was him. He said he prefers that type of a post because it gave him the option to comment or not. He said just posting a pic of us doesn't give him that same option. I don't completely buy it, but because it's an LDR, for now, we need to focus on changing the fact that we don't really see each other and are not that integrat
  14. I'm not burying my head in the sand. We definitely have a problem. I'm just being honest that I don't know if this a deal breaker or not. It has added to the bigger issue of being in an LDR where we barely see each other.
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