wernotperfect

The problem is that you're just beating around the bush. Go up to him while he is alone and ASK HIM HOW HE FEELS ABOUT YOU. Look directly in his eyes and ASK HIM. If he can't give you a straight answer then he's not really attracted to you in which case you're just wasting your time.

Okay, let me get this straight..... 1. You like a guy ALOT 2. Things are going well 3. For no reason at all, you up and dump him? Okay, rather than answering your question, let me ASK you a question.... Do YOU honestly think you DESERVE to have this person again after dumping them for no reason? Seriously, do you? Erica, you blew it. If I were that guy I would never speak to you again. I don't understand why women do these types of things. It's really ridiculous. Are you in High School by any chance?

That's a tough one. I've never believed in LD relationships myself. I just don't see how they can possibly work. One thing I do know is that writing to a person and meeting them in person is so much different. At some point you will have to meet or it's all a waste of time. It's almost like writing to a fan club. All you get is letters and pictures but you never get to squeeze the lead singers butt, lol.

I think being friends first is always the best thing. I notice that Women tend to shut down more of their options when they have a focus on another male. Women can do this better than men because Women usually have easier access to securing a "mate" of their choice than men do. But stick around because you may be one of her alternative options. I know that sounds kinda sorry, but hey, men have to take it the way they can get it and we don't complain it either, lol!

Hey Nikkia, I'm confused..... Could you tell us alittle about what happened?