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smis

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  1. Custom X, Why would you feel guilty? There is nothing you could have done to stop her from breaking up with you. You did not let her break up with you. You can't stop someone from not wanting to be with you. I was with someone for 5 years and he ended it in January, I kept feeling like I can't let this happen, I have to try harder, but the reality is, is that it is not up to you to do anything. It's up to her now. So you have choices you have to make now. You can either sit and be depressed, wanting to kill yourself, just like how I did, and let me tell you that gets you no where. Or you can move on, keep yourself busy and accept the fact that there is nothing you could have done. Why would you want to sit and be depressed over someone, who is out and enjoying there life. Don't you think you deserve the same. By the way nothing will help you more than time.
  2. You are basically used to the way your old relationship was. Let more time go by, you are sure to adjust to your new situation. Remember that you don't want to push the new girl away and have to regret your actions. Just trust that she is being honest when she says she loves you because everybody is different and will show their love differently.
  3. Hi, I wouldn't say that you have all these mental problems that you have listed. I think I feel the exact same way. First off, you could have a dependent personality, because other people seem to contribute to your mood and also you said you don't like to be alone. I know how that feels I hate being alone, but on the other hand I love being alone. Also, you could also be histrionic, which means you exagerate things in your head a lot. I do the same thing also, that is why when I feel I have this huge problem, no else seems to think so. You could also say you are just a sensitive person and nothing is wrong with that. Some people are just more sensitive than others. The key to your problems is not eliminating the way you feel, because there is no exact answer, but you must learn how to cope with these feelings. Trapping yourself at home is not a good idea, because it will just make you think more and become more obsessive about the way your feeling. I think you are on the right track though, you have managed to come to terms with your problems, which is a huge step. All you need to know is how to manage them now.
  4. You are better off without him. He is obviously not such a great guy if he has his girlfriend pregnant and is flirting with you. The best thing to do is to not think about too much and you should be fine.
  5. Hi, You are definitely not crazy. However, you may keep repeating yourself because you are not getting the answers you wanted. You should really let the obsessive thinking go, because you are only harming yourself. It could also have just become a habit now.
  6. I was in the same position. I was with a guy for almost 6 years. He broke it off with me earlier this year. I wanted to die. I would do anything to not let go. I would like to sit here and type you a strategy on getting her back, but there is no such thing. To tell you the truth, the more you chase her the more she will run away. Trust me. Let her go, it is up to her now to decide. The ball is in her court, there is nothing you can do to change a person's feelings towards you. I know it might sound harsh and mean, but the sooner you come to terms with the truth the easier it will be. Also, only time can heal you. You have probably heard that a million times, but it is true.
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