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  1. i was having this conversation regarding condoms with him yesterday. he told me that now by law condoms need to have the spermaticide thing and that they dont break easily at all. you can oull even scratch, you would need a knife or scissor to make the task effective. but the thing with the cream... today i pass by the pharmacy so i guess i could check that out... see if i got some money on me. my bf tells me that all those percents deal with misuse. my aunts are doctors and they tell me that media always takes the safe side and puts a probability for everything. i once did a research on tampon and sanitary napkin use and discovered that all that issue over TSS deals a lot with misuse, and that they always have this warning in the package that says not to leave them inside for more than 8 hrs. that i discovered is scientifically wrong... it can be left inside up to 12 hrs. but companies prevent more problems and take less risks because if a woman forgets to get it out for a while and takes up to 12 hrs they can make sure there wont be any problems. in sexual education classes people see condoms and you realize they are really tough material. so i guess that all that is needed is take all precautions.
  2. Ok, well, my boyfriend and i want to have sex and he's trying to convince me not to be scared because i'm kind of paranoid with the pregnancy thing. i'm underage, so it would really kill me. he has had sex quite some times before and he has experience with the condom. don't get me wrong here, he's not pressuring me into anything and i strongly believe sex should not determine the value of a relationship and it certainly doesn't. everything has gone totally fine for the 2 months we've been together, but recentrly we've been getting more and more intimate and i know that soon enough we'll end up having sex. but im a virgin... i've got everywhere, but to home. i know condoms are like 100% ... but lol... i'm worried about everything. my issue is not loosing my virginity cause i don't make an issue out of that... we just have strong feelings for each other and we want to have sex damn it. i know he knows how to use the condom like spr error proof... i just need to be convinced that im goingf to have a great time without having to worry about anything. i know i can trust him... can i trust the condom? what do u think??? what has been YOUR experience with it all if any?
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