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  1. I have been trying to visualise him having sex with someone else. So far, that seems to be helping a little. I feel less attracted to him now. I am nervous because in about 2 weeks I have to see him again, on a regular basis (2x a week) in Tae Kwon Do. We had met there 2 years ago. But I took a 4 month break while all of this cr*p was happening. And my Grandmaster keeps calling me to come back. But I did dye my hair jet black (I am a natural redhead) yesterday so I can 'feel' different and maybe he won't recognise me.
  2. Eocsor- can you tell me a little more about why it is a bad idea? I am not trying to be obtuse, I am just not used to these feelings
  3. Okay- I am pretty sure that this has not happened... (yet)... but I want to prepare myself for the inevitable. How do you cope with the notion of your ex-bf/gf having sex with someone else? I am still so attached to them. I mean, it is totally different when you have broken up and years later you find out that they are married/kids/etc.. But when you were just dumped (or even the dumper), what sort of techniques have worked for you? I feel that what we shared was so special that I don't want to have sex with anyone else now. And I feel a visceral pain when I think of him sleeping with a
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