well sorry to say this but being together with a married man can never be good or even if u fall in love with that person!!!! even though u have always been told to follow ur heart well un fortunately the place where that will lead u to will be heart ache**
reason 1- he has kids
reason 2-he has a psycho wife
reason 3-wait till he has all his shit together
reason 4- i tell u from experience give him time
and if he really cared about u he wouldn't have to see if he does behind his wifes back if he cared he'd make it easy for u not hard
alright pieces.