Voyager

I think guys should try to understand what this is like for women. I know I would hate it if my gf stared at hot guys all the time...

Thanks! He doesn't like women or associate with them because he can't understand them at all. And the feeling is generally mutual. He doesn't even think about them, their existence barely crosses his mind, except for his sister. I think it takes a little femininity for a guy to be able to relate to women, and vice versa. It's interesting, because we somehow think of the most masculine guys as being players or whatever.

I don't think the genders are different, but we get treated differently. It can be very helpful to learn how the "other side" sees things. I have a good friend of mine who is extremely, completely male, in his interests, dress, the state of his room, everything. He's also gay. That makes sense to me. Femininity to him is a cipher, it's incomprehensible. Why would he want to spend time with any women?