Uncosame

Hi all, I can't believe I have read all 855 threads!! Here is my 2 cents on getting back together (or reconciliation). It really does take 2 people to make any relationship work; unless you are ok with just going through the motions, it's not worth getting back together if it is one-sided. I have been broken up with my ex for 3.5 months now after being together for 3 years. I can say that she's the love of my life and I have never been loved by any other the way that she loved me, but things happened and the timing was off. I have to admit that I wasn't "whole"; I have many childhood wounds that have impacted my life, including my time with her. She doesn't know the details, but I know she's not ready to hear my story. I have been in therapy for almost 2 months, trying to heal these wounds and grow as an individual. This was an amazing thread. For those who are currently heart broken, keep your chin up because everyone deserves to see all of you (including your ex).... You never know what will happen, but in the meantime, focus on living a fulfilling life... Cheers all! Unco