Day 3
Dear ex,
I am trying so hard not to re-read all the texts and pictures you sent me. They just make me cry. I have tried to force myself not to go on facebook because I don't want to be hurt anymore. I feel so sick because she has been trying to break us up for over a year and now you are single, she is moving in on you - on facebook so I can see, and privately. I know you said that you don't want her.....but I don't know if I can handle your inevitable rebound. Despite the fact you are scared of women because of our pregnancy scare and you said it makes you feel sick to think of me with someone else.....so come back!
I have been brave so far - I have not begged or pleaded. I am hoping that you will come back on your own. When you said you wanted to get back together in the future my heart felt 6 tonnes lighter - when you said that I will probably have a new boyfriend by then, it sank. I wonder if you are thinking about the good times? You mentioned some of the hard times when we last spoke. Its been said that after the initial break up, the dumper focuses on the bad times to help them feel like they made the right decision. After a few weeks, they remember the good times. I hope so. I told you that if you love someone you let them go and if they are yours then they will come back. I half believe it. You always believed that I was psychic - well everything I saw in the tarot cards has come true. You got into uni and your book has been accepted. The cards say that this is a temporary pause and that reunions will happen and my wishes will be fulfilled. I am praying that I am as good as you think I am! When you said you were planning on taking me away for the weekend before we broke up, it was bittersweet. To know that we both had the same plan and wanted time with each other....but that it will never happen. I'm praying it will in the future.
Everything I see reminds me of you in some way - the games we used to play, teasing, nicknames, things we did together. I used to love a lie in with you on the weekends. This has been my first weekend back in my flat on my own - without friends, parents or you....and now I can't even sleep in my bed without missing you and your cuddly pj's. I can't eat the chocolate buttons you left in my fridge. I can't watch any of the dvd's I own because I remember how we saw them together. I have wanted to phone you everyday. I wish you hadn't pushed me away. I know why you did, to help you get better, but I want to share my life with you, like we planned to. I miss your family too - they were so supportive. I am sorry your mum is ill, she will be fine. I promise.
I know I suggested no-contact and you chose three weeks. This is going to be the longest three weeks of my life - please don't break my heart at the end of it. I deserve at least a coffee to talk things through - I know you said that seeing me made you realise what you had done, and you couldn't handle pretending to be ok that we are not together, but I miss you. So much.