dont do it! You have to much to give away, especially for a man who is putting you under that kind of pressure.
I have not been the perfect bf hence why me and my gf broke up, But i would never ask a gf to give up anything of such kind. Does this guy know what love is.
I will tell you what i believe love is. Sharing things, Loving every aspect of the person, taking an interest in the person, not taking them for granted, helping each other, Happiness and comprimise.
This guy wants you to up and leave, thats been selfish if you ask me. Hasnt given you a thought and to me sorry if this is harsh but thats not true love!
Best thing you could do is move on, Hard i know.
I accepted that me and my gf were over and it hurt but i feel ateast i am going somewhere now. I can focus on moving on and becoming a great dad