mexmickey

The thing that i like about a guy is their hair... i for one love the long (mid long) hair ... kinda like the beatles ( no mullets!) and then the eyes... make sure to look her in the eyes = drama = ooh ... then i like to see a guy dressed up... you know collered button up shirt and slacks Smelling oh so good! I recomend Aqua de Gio! I love it!!! or ... Hubo Boss or ... candies for men!!! Yeah those are so yummy Lucks to u... and good luck with the acne... oh yeah... teeth are so important

I believe it will be highly more pleasurable in love... I never said "self-abuse" i just think its wrong. But whatever you do to your body isn't my business.. just trying to give some advice. moderation is the healthy way to live...

hi... i dont mean to sound so old school... but... dont you find that touching yourself is just wrong? you are going through a stage of confusion and sensuality which is normal at puberty+. But really, i dont think masterbation is going to cure anything. I just find it gross that people have to get a kick out of it... you dont have to do anything. I'm catholic and we find it a sin, because ... well it's pleasure, and frankly... you are abusing your own body. Suggestions... don't listen to any of the guys that posted.. they are sex addicts. you need to control your urges and what makes you think that u "want to feel more"? this is only going to lead to early sex, and may lead to teen pregnancy and STD's.. .there are so many out there. Please Be careful! I find this a serious matter, and you won't really understand your body until you mature and can supress it. You should just wait. Plus, you're 15! You are so young! You dont need IT!!! please be safe 8-[

from the stand point of a girl, i think that the reason she would "cry" about this situation is that she is now not sure about what you want from this relationship. Take into consideration the lenght of you relationship. If its any shorter than lets say 6 moths, then it may be way too soon for her to be touched in that way. Plus with that big of a step, she may think that you WANT SEX out of the relationship. which is scary, especially among the many (if you can believe it) modest girls that really just want a boyfriend to spend time with and tell her he loves her... not really just too fool around with. Girls are not driven by their compulsions as much as guys are. So just think about this. Make sure to apologize, but also make it clear that you love her for who she is and not for being a sex object. you seem to be sincere in your regret, just make it clear to her. Best of luck

You know this reminds me of a movie i read... especiall the whole coincidence of 3 month intervals... Extremely loving --> moderate --> to disappearing I dont' remembet the name of the movie, but the girl was bi-polar. It could be (and lets hope it isnt) a phychological state she is in. Bi-polarism is serious and does harm many relationship. If you love her enough, you can get past this, but it going to be sooooooo hard. Look online for a better defenition of what it means to be bi-polar, because i only learned it in intro to psych and i dont really know how to explain it. But its like people have cycles of feeling about themselves and others that they go thrue. It can be daily, monthly or seasonal. They tend to go thru cycles of opposite extrema... just totally psycho but they can't control it. THey have pills for it now, but lets just hope that she isn't bi-polar. Talk to her parents about her behavior, to see if maybe they notice it and you may need to request proffessional help. Best of Luck to You

THAT IS THE EXACT PROBLEM I HAVE WITH MY GUY!!! I know how you feel, and the guys just dont understand! It's so hard, but i guess you just have to keep knocking it into their heads... well acually i dont know but at least you know your not alone. I am so confused too. What to do???

Let me get this straight... 1) You have been going out with this girl for ONLY 4 1/2 months (on and off). Or does the on and off add up to more time? How long have you known eachother? 2) She has hook up friends... does this mean she had then while the two of you were together? If she had them, does that mean that she doesnt really care much about sensuality, it's just a way to pass the time? because if you think about it, it sounds like she just did it to do it. and now that she has you, she feels secure and not required to do anything. ... and with the kissing thing, it isnt a big deal. I have told my boyfriend that i didnt like the way he kissed, but it may be just the lack of experience or your too fast or too "hungry" that takes all the emotion out of it. You have to realize that kissing is an emotional expression that is sooo underated in out time and age. It is what leads to running the bases. You have to really understand that "moving on" if its meant to happen, it will just happen. But how much farther do you really want to go? Especially, think about what the most responsible thing to do would be. If you both want to mess around, i dont think you really have to talk about it, it will happen. and if she doesnt want to then she'll make you stop unless she feels like you are going to reject her for it... which you are NOT right? You can't judge a person on the way they kiss or what not... you just have to feel the connection (not body to body) but more like soul to soul. If you can read her eyes and know that she loves you, what else matter. And you may just be moving too fast... i mean 4 months? Well... it is the 21st century, but i still think its too fast. Plus you may just "think" you want to move farther because your thinking with your hormones and not with your BRAIN! Hope this helps, if not ... sorry. I just thought you would appreciate my point of view.

So i have been "talking" to this guy for about two months. I told him i wanted to go slow and not start a real relationship because i wanted to concentrate on school and my gpa. Well it's really hard for us to understand eachother this way. Lately, since i have been busy (it is mid-term time) he hasn't called me much or doesnt even invite me anywhere. So it doesnt feel like were dating much. I dont know what i want anymore. I really like him and he SAYS he likes me, but he doesnt seem to show it. Is it me or is it him? What does it mean when i invite him somewhere and he says "I'll see if i don't have any plans." and he barely even calls me anymore. It makes me feel like he has another girl, but his friends tell me he just doesnt know what to do. It's kinda like his first relationship. I just want to know that he thinks about me and cares about me. Is that too much to ask? What does it mean for a guy to act in contrast to their word? Or is he just ignorant to the way a girl should be treated? I don't want to seem to insistent, but am i the one trying to move to fast? He's always going out with his friends without telling me that he's going out and it makes me feel like... alright. I don't know what to think anymore and i just want to know if i should go on or what? Is he going to act the same way once the define our commitment?